yea as tschock said it is very normal some woman actually produce more than the others too. yes it can get messy and increase the amount of the discharge when you are pregnant too. if your boyfriend think its gross than he shouldnt have sex at all because all the woman has discharges.
for the cramp i get cramps right before i start my period and during the period. i have bad cramps. unless you think you have the possiblity of the pregnancy i also think its normal.
good luck
It's normal. Tell your boyfriend it's all part of life.
When it looks and feels like egg whites then it means you are fertile.
When was your last period? When you get pregnant your body produces an over abundance of the stuff and it can get quite messy. I asked because you mentioned cramps.
If the discharge has a bad odor then you could have a serious problem.
To put your mind at ease go to the doctor and have a PAP test.
Tell your boyfriend to talk to his friends about it...maybe they can put his mind at ease.
Or tell him to go online and read about women's bodies. lol
Good luck