I am married and my hubby has only made me have a big O once or twice, but i'm still satisfied, only one man was ever able to make meO. I think part of is that i dont like to "lose control"
Totally true--lots of guys do not know exactly how to give a girl an orgasm. If you have had an orgasm before, try telling your boyfriend how to move and what to do. Another thing is a lot of women can't orgasm from just intercourse, it takes clitoral stimulation. If he still has difficulty, you could consider buying a sex toy and using it with him and see if that works. ;) Good luck!
not many girls have an orgasum. (sp?) its no biggie