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[Saracomet]

I was 6 weeks along and had a miscarge and my obgyn dont seam to care, its like they just tossed me on the back burner when I called them and said nothing when I asked to be sean. I never felt thid empty before like I cant do anything  right-

Am I a bad person that I coulnt stay preg?

[Saracomet]

I passed the baby last night. It tok me a sec to got what it was but I do feel better because I got to hold "it " is that odd

[baby2014]

I know how you are feeling right now. It is very hard to go through because that baby is apart of you. I had a miscarriage at 21 I was 7 weeks and a miscarriage at 25 I was 13 weeks. I was pregnant again at 26 and had a Preemie at 35 weeks. I had to put myself on bed rest for the first 14 weeks with my 3rd pregnancy and I still had many problems. If you get pregnant again just take it easy for a while. A lot of women do loose the 1st and I believe it's because our bodies may not be completely prepared also keep taking your prenatals and if you haven't started them I would. It's good for your body and helps prepare. I agree with specialmom 100% sometimes the ob doesn't seem to care but they do. The greatest person to look to in these situations is someone who has gone through it. I had a bad experience trying to talk to my mom she was very harsh and told me to suck it up because it wasn't like it was a live or that I even got to hold it. I said yes it was a live and I was holding it inside my womb. Take care of yourself and seek help if needed but know that you will heal in time and you will have

[Saracomet]

Had my hcg check to day at the er and it went from a 12 to a 3,  they called it a spontainous abortshin... And I al so have a bv gardnerealla( spelling)  but I did lose the baby

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Sorry about the miscarriage!  That is hard and on top of the sadness surrounding the loss of a pregnancy, our hormones are in full swing at that time and cause us to be even more emotional than usual.  

I'm sure that your doctor cares dear.  Miscarriage happens to 1 our of 4 pregnancies.  This is why a doctor may 'seem' like he doesn't care.  Early miscarriage is something that happens routinely in their practice and hence, they kind of lose the urgency that the woman going through the miscarriage feels.  They need to work on their bed side manner in those cases for sure!

The good news is that while miscarriage is common, so is it common that women who have them go on to have healthy pregnancies and babies!!  So, know that you will have your baby some day.  

I would watch what happens with the miscarriage and perhaps the doctor will see you soon to make sure all went okay with it.  That is pretty common practice to do that and especially if you begin to have odd symptoms afterwards.  

Yes, we have a miscarriage forum here.  Look on the right hand side of this page.  There is a box called Related Forums.  You'll see Miscarriages there.  Click on this to go to a forum for women going through or who have had a miscarriage.

Peace and luck to you.  (oh, and if you continue to feel sad and hopeless, please see your doctor.  Depression is very treatable and would hate for you spiral down if it can be helped.)

[evewisewoman]

Hello there,

This is absolutely not your fault. Of course you're not a bad person because
you couldn't stay pregnant. There are a number of reasons why miscarriages occur. I would check the other user forums, I think there may
be a forum specifically for women who have had miscarriages. It's like a
support group. I'm pretty sure I saw this group one day when I was checking out the other forums on this site. Blessings, Eve

Sorry to hear that but you are absolutely not at fault for having a miscarriage Im not sure what went wrong but things happen sometimes trust me I can speak from experice its the worse feeling in the world so just hang in there and as for your obgyn thats odd they are not willing to do anything I just you tha best of luck.