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What is wrong with my vagina and anus after rough sexual trauma?
Last week, I had rough anal and vaginal intercourse with my partner who is clean of STIs, I’m clean too. THEre was little to no lubrication. I’m back home now and have been home for three days. My symptoms have progressively worsened. I have raw crusty swollen sores on my outer labia towards my entrance. My entrance feels and looks torn. It’s swollen, red, and so painful I cant sit down, shift, or even lay down without sharp pain. Urinating burns and wiping does too, I have to use the lightest touch and even then it’s sharp and severe to the point of bringing me to tears. I’m only 20, having had three sexual partners in my lifetime. As for my anus, it’s not exactly prolapsed but I’m discharging clear and bloody fluids, I’m straining, I can’t defecate due to the intensity of the pain, and I can literally push the bits of swollen tissue back in with great difficulty.
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I think that badsleep left you good advice. The rough sex was . . .rough. Sometimes we get a little itchy when things heal too so don't be surprised if that happens. The wipes are a good idea! good luck
Well, with little to no lubrication you probably hurt yourself. I would recommend if you're going to have rough sex you use lubrication or this will continue to happen. Sorry this is happening to you. Try medicated aloe wipes to help ease the pain a bit. It should ease up with time.
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It turned out he gave me herpes. Thanks so much for the help...❤️
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that. MedHelp has a herpes forum where you can get some advice if you need it. hugs
I'm so sorry love! I hope that things are able to work out for you in the future, stay strong. As previously stated there is forum for advice. Much love
So sorry to hear that. My husband, now ex, gave me herpes when I was 8 mos pregnant. Finding out he was not only cheating but gave me an std was horrible. It is manageable & taking care of yourself, you can still have a healthy sex life. I’m 56 & that was over 25 yrs ago. Don’t let it get you down. Stay strong.
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