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Who is the father of my unborn child?
I can't believe I am even in this situation but I am, so here goes. My LMP was November 14th. My period ended on November 19th. My fiance and I had sex on the night of the 19th and on the 20th. My fiance and I had broken up on the 21st and I went to a guy's house and we had sex 5 times between November 21st and November 22nd. My fiance and I worked things out and I went back home on November 22nd. My fiance and I had sex every day-at least 2 times a day since November 23rd. I took an OPK on November 25th and it was negative. I took another OPK on November 27th and it was positive. Another thing is that my fiance and I have been TTC and we were both taking fertilaid. Well I took a pregnancy test on December 11th and it was positive. I calculated things online and I was 3 weeks, 6 days when I took the test. My dr confirmed I am pregnant this past Wednesday. I feel in my heart that my fiance is the father and aldo believe this because of the OPKs. The other man does drugs and drinks so I'm not sure how his sperm is but I know my fiance's sperm is good. Can someone please help me. My fiance has told me no matter what he will be there and that will be HIS child. I just need to settle my mind.
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unfortunately there is no deffinit way of knowing but to me it seems more likely that the baby is your fiances after reading that, your fiance knows and has made it clear that he is still goiing to be there and love the child as his own, and he is the one going to be there so in my mind no matter what he is the father biologically or not
Thank you.
i agree with other posters. based on your last period you would have ovulated on nov. 25th through the 30th. congratulations on the baby.
No matter what we are getting a DNA test after the baby is born. We were going to get one while I was still pregnant but I have already had one miscarriage and the risks of the DNA tests while you are pregnant are damage to the baby and miscarriage. So we decided to wait until after the baby gets here.
@ steff502- I believe the baby is my fiance's too and after posting this he called me and said he knows its his, he can feel it and is having the symptoms I am. But, I know these things can be out of wack sometimes so if, by a slim chance, he isn't the biological father technically, I know he will still be the father. We are very excited for this pregnancy and the birth of the baby.
Thank you both for your comments.
@ steff502- I believe the baby is my fiance's too and after posting this he called me and said he knows its his, he can feel it and is having the symptoms I am. But, I know these things can be out of wack sometimes so if, by a slim chance, he isn't the biological father technically, I know he will still be the father. We are very excited for this pregnancy and the birth of the baby.
Thank you both for your comments.
DNA test after the child is born.
It's the only definitive test that'll tell you who is and who isn't the father.
It's the only definitive test that'll tell you who is and who isn't the father.
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