Stress is the best birth control. Do you have regular cycles, and know when you ovulate? Ovulation calenders are ONLY a guess, and it's very easy to ovulate outside of these. Some tips that might help.
Remember, less is more. For best results, you should have sex every other day. This gives enough time for the sperm to build up. Lying down does NOTHING. When a male ejaculates in you, the sperm is already placed exactly where it needs to be. I've been pregnant twice, miscarried once and each time I immediately got up, urinated and showered. There are also no "right" sex positions. Any will get you pregnant. You could have sex standing on your head, and it makes no difference. To learn when you ovulate, you can use OPK's as well as observing your own body. For example, when you're about to ovulate your discharge will change and it will become very stretchy and resemble egg whites. Another thing to do is just enjoy sex and being with your partner. Ask any couple---you get pregnant when you stop trying, and stop obsessing over it.
Sounds to me like you're on the right track... have more great sex! :) - Blu
PS... i think sometimes ppl try too hard to make it happen, so just relax and let nature take its course. :)
Im trying to have a baby with my faience and we been trying for 11 months now I kno I will have one when god blesses me but we r honestly tryin everything no protection the right sex poisons laying down forever after wards counting the calender. I went to the doctor they said I was good to go as for him like what else do I do
Sure thing, hunny... we are here to help! If you are too embarrassed to post here, you may send me a private message and I will do my best to give you answers. - Blu
Well, what is particular do you need help with?