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ok, this is embrassing, but i have been married for 4yrs n courted with my husband 5yrs b4. i dont have orgasms n actually i dont njoy sex anymore. i tried talking to my huz about it on numerous occations but it never changes. he gets on top, do wat he has to breaks n thats thats. i am bored, not interested in sex n i am beginning to worry. yes i have tried many different approaches. what the hell can i do again?
thanks for ur advise, but i actually want more sex than ever. i have never turned him away, im am the one who gets shot dwn. sometimes i wonder if he isnt attracted to me anymore. he is older than i am n has been having sex way longer than i have, i doh no wats going on but there isnt anything he asks me to do that i dont willing approach.
been there done that, the man just hard of hearing. when i try to b like dominant, he laughs n tells me he doh want me to b like dat. we have done all that he wans n i was happy with dat cuz it was both ways. but things just change. i can have sex every nite more than once, but i literally beg him. do u tink he isnt attracted to me anymore?
Since you have a 3 year old and are pregnant again, it's likely your body is saying "no more".
This sounds like normal hormone fluctuations to me. Women's brains turn "off" when they have too much to handle - and a 3 year old and a pregnancy is enough to handle - so your brain is saying, do stop.
It's not that much effort to give a guy sex. You don't feel like it, but he does, and the more willing you are to just do it, the less energy you will be putting into denying him access.
Sorry to sound so unromantic. That's just the facts. If he wants sex, and you give it to him, you won't be spending all your time and energy putting him off and he won't be spending all his time and energy trying to convince you to do it.
Best wishes. In your early 40's, you won't believe there was a time you didn't want it.
This sounds like normal hormone fluctuations to me. Women's brains turn "off" when they have too much to handle - and a 3 year old and a pregnancy is enough to handle - so your brain is saying, do stop.
It's not that much effort to give a guy sex. You don't feel like it, but he does, and the more willing you are to just do it, the less energy you will be putting into denying him access.
Sorry to sound so unromantic. That's just the facts. If he wants sex, and you give it to him, you won't be spending all your time and energy putting him off and he won't be spending all his time and energy trying to convince you to do it.
Best wishes. In your early 40's, you won't believe there was a time you didn't want it.
ahve u tried ..any sex toys .. LOL>> i know i have ..with my hubs ,, it great ..nad have u gone on top .. and tell him what u want .. don't let him jsut do his thing .. remind him about u .. u want to feel pleasure too ..
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