uneven labia

[Saquatch79]

I am 33, and for the first time and asking questions about it. It's been this way since I was about 10. One side is about a 1/4 inch longer than the other. It has truly put a damper on my sex life. I have such a hard time letting a guy go down on me. Seriously, to the point that they're kind of freaked out. I can't get over this. I try so hard to let go, but can't. Should I get surgery or just be me?? This is the most terrifying subject to me. I am insanely insecure about it.

[lisaob1]

hi i agree with NOHARD,everybody is different,it would only be for vanity having cosmetic treatment..and lets face it..its not a part of the body that is on show..people have one ear bigger than the other etc....it is normal and i shouldnt worry about it too much

[RockRose]

saquatch,  I think what you have is Body Dysmorphic Disorder.  Getting it surgically corrected to where your labia measure the same size to the exact atom won't fix this - it's not your labia that's the problem,  is an obsessive thought pattern.

I think you need to look elsewhere besides changing the appearance of your labia to "fix" the problem -

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/body-dysmorphic-disorder/DS00559

[NOHARD]

Hi Saquatch, look were all differant for a start you will find most women have one boob bigger that the other, nearly all of us have one leg longer than the other, so why should your labia be the same lenght on both sides, have tryied doing some reseach in changing rooms with a ruler.
ok last bit was a joke.
Dont ruin your sex life over such a trivial thing and just enjoy your sex life.
Good Luck