try Witch Hazel.. its and astringent .. you 'll get it from your pharmacies. If you're from india , i ll tell you the local name . Other wise , fine
Regards
GK
well i dnt really know this one but you could have an allergy to his pubic hair also you should talk to your doctor
I you've recently started having sex, this is normal and is because your labias aren't used to the friction and consider sex a form of trauma to their sensative areas. What I can suggest for next time is possibly trying some lubricant, so your tissues don't feel so much trauma. If you continue to have sex, your tissues should eventually get used to it and the swelling and pain should gradually stop. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Sara RN