Hello I am a male 26 years old and around 20 hours ago I received anal penetration with a dildo from my girlfriend. We have done this several times and everything was fine. We used lots of lube, it was a soft rubber one and not sharp at all, like 21 cm. long (8 inches). A few days ago she got a bigger dildo, we tried it and was fine. But yesterday when we were using it I felt my stomach weird, like I could feel it inside (I hadn't eaten) and after she removed it I started hearing those typical stomach sounds. Some minutes later I got sudden pain on my abdomen in the left side but it was for a second or two and it went away.
So I got nervous, started reading lots of stuff on the internet and became very paranoid about something being wrong with me. I got so scared that I think it made me had low blood pressure, got nausea and almost fainted because of the all the serious things that I read. I went to the restroom and the stools looked completely normal. Then I felt better and also during the day. I didn't eat much, I wasn't hungry. I went to sleep and had a good night, just woke up once but not from pain or anything related. I didn't not have fever or nausea at all anytime. No abdominal pain but a little feeling of being swollen, from time to time I hear some noises from the abdomen like if things would be moving around in there and like tickling from inside. I went to the restoroom a couple of hours ago and only one little stool with a red dot of blood and some air. It is not the first time I see blood from time to time happens, I think it is a hemorrhoid bleeding from the masturbation of course. Besides that the stool looked completely normal. Just for the record I have irritable bowel syndrome and I take trimebutine everyday.
I tend to overreact when it comes to being sick, get very anxious and scared, so I need your advice. I called my gastroenterologist he is on vacation. Also called my general practitioner, who happens to be my cousin, but he is busy until night (like 9 hours still for me to see him). I read very nasty things like a tear or perforation in your bowel could happen leading to peritonitis or the bowel being swollen like an alergic (allergic) reaction to silicone leading to deadly conditions.
I repeat I don't feel acute pain, just from time to time (not persistent) little pain, like it is a little bit swollen and making noises from time to time. Other than that I feel normal. Maybe I have a common indigestion or could it be all caused by stress? How long does it take to develop a peritonitis or other symptoms that could indicate a risk threatening issue? It is factible I have a tear or perforation from the dildo. I am scared please help me and sorry for my english.
Thanks for your reply Paulalex. Unfortunately I don't find your comment helpful. The thing is done and now I need some advice. If anyone could give me a helpful opinion I would be grateful... I need it.
Thanks for your reply. Fortunately my cousin (general practitioner) got free earlier and came by. He checked my abdomen and asked me a few questions. I told him the full story. He said he doesn't think I have a perforated bowel since I would be in a much worse pain.
He said I have some gas and some distended abdomen. I asked him several times if he was sure, he said I shouldn't worry and advised me not to engage in that practices anymore. I think I will do as he says. I still feel very funny and very nervous. By some reason I still believe I could have something wrong and can't eat, no appetite and feel very stress because I have from time to time some pain in my abdomen, as well as noises and feel it swollen. Do you have any other advices, suggestion? Should I seek for a second/third oppinion? If I would be septic wouldn't I feel much worse, fever, chills and lot of pain?
Yes when you are septic you have a very high fever. Google symptom
checker and use the checker www.everydayhealth.com/symptom-checker
answer the questions honestly do not try to guess where the doc is heading
as you can skew the results. This guy is good. But sometimes people like you and me have a tendency to worry too much we look to the internet
and interpret the info wrong. Sometimes by trying to rule things out we find new problems. When I was a Navy corpsman we treated sailors who became septic from unprotected anal sex some of the European prostitutes prefered anal sex .Treated females for sepsis they got from dirty sex toys.One needs to be carefull.
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