In Reply to: Could this be connected to autism? posted by Gayle on June 19, 1998 at 23:58:47:
I have a son with aspergers disorder. He is 6. His sister is 4 1/2 and I have some concerns about her that are puzzling. She does not alternate feet when going up and down stairs, she doesn't peddle a bike, she doesn't socialize with kids outside of immediate family (she is hostile if they approach her), she picks at everything like it has lint on it, she prefers soft foods, she won't play like other kids..she is fearful of heights and movement. She wouldn't go outside for weeks when it was windy. She panicked saying the wind would blow her away. Her speech is odd. It seems out of context..inappropriate use of words or pronouns. (Is it dark out, the sky will break?)...(Because that's how the way it goes?)...(Tomorrow I not goina get married when I'm dead first).
Her 2 year old brother speaks and moves better than she does. Oddly, she draws very well..good details and very exact. She has been getting PT for over a year (one on one gymnastics...) She has problems w/"motor planning" and praxis according to PT. I have seen some success. At 4 1/2 she can now hop twice on one foot and at times hold her balance on one foot for 2-3 seconds. She just recently caught a ball!
I don't know what direction to go. I had her evaluated by Child Find and they referred her to special ed a few days a week. She presented as nervous, shy.. talking almost inaudibly, and didn't pass tests (ex. point to dog...she pointed to every picture) After a few months she was dismissed from the program because "she seemed fine"...they interpreted her language as "being silly".
Does this sound like a connection to autism?
Hi. I am 35 years old and have Asperger syndrome. You probably already
know that Asperger syndrome is considered to be at the "high functioning"
end of the autism spectrum. You may also know that autism spectrum
disorders may have a genetic component, so it is certainly possible to
have more than one child on the spectrum, though it may appear differently
due to where on the spectrum, personality differences, and whether the
child is a boy or a girl. The main diagnostic difference between autism
and Asperger syndrome is that in autism there is usually a significant
delay in acquiring language while in Asperger syndrome there is not
(although language use may be "odd"). Your daughter sounds a lot like my
son, also age 4 1/2. I suspect that he has Asperger syndrome (he is a lot
like me), but I was told that usually a diagnosis of Asperger syndrome
cannot be made easily until the child is of school age because of the way
the diagnostic criteria are written. Sometimes a younger child who has
AS will be diagnosed with PDD (pervasive developmental disorder), which
is also on the autism spectrum. I'm not pursuing a diagnosis for him at
this time for that reason, though the autism specialist I see (for myself)
does think that my son appears to be on the spectrum. Asperger syndrome
does make life more difficult in many respects, but people with Asperger
sydrome usually excel in some areas which should be encouraged and
There is a lot of info on Asperger syndrome at this web site:
Also, you can ask specific questions about AS on the message forum at
this web site:
I do the HTML for that one. The message forum is not used much right
now, but you can get answers to any questions about Asperger syndrome
from someone who works all the time with Asperger Syndrome and autistic
An *excellent* book about Asperger syndrome (I recommend it *very*
Tony Attwood. Asperger's Syndrome: A Guide for Parents and Professionals
(Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1998). ISBN 1 85302 577 1. 224 pages.
There is more info about that book at:
Also, if you e-mail me, I can put you in touch with other parents of
children on the autism spectrum. My e-mail is ***@****
I hope this helps.
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