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How to tell if she is lying about being pregnant

Hi,
I recently had a one night stand with an older lady, she is between 46-50 years old. We were both pretty drunk but I used a condom and after the sex remember it was full of my semen and then I flushed it down the toilet. Now this woman came off as a bit of a fantasist, telling me she got messages direct from celebrities on Twitter, claiming she dreamed she would meet somebody in the same job as me (Not that it's very exciting). Fair enough, no problem, it was nice to meet her and I said my goodbyes without giving her my number, although I did tell her where I worked.
Two weeks later she phones me at work randomly for a chat, asking if I'll go back to the club we met. I falsely tell her I have a girlfriend to try and put her off the scent. Then I get a text two weeks later saying she is having morning sickness and thinks she may be pregnant. She says something must have gone wrong and can't take a Home Pregnancy Test as she has a rare blood condition. Is this likely? She says her period is late then mentions that she now has only one tube and doesn't know how this 'happened'. She claims she will go to the doctor in a couple of weeks for a blood test. Then she tells me her boyfriend is coming back from abroad and she is beinf forced to take him back as he has had two heart attacks without her. Even though he is in his 30s.
Is she trying to rope me in or is there a chance she could be telling the truth?
Thanks for your help.
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404138 tn?1308941656
she sounds crazy.
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1113994 tn?1258663183
Personaly I would tell her u want true-real proof, which would be for her to take a home pregnancy test, with you present. That is one of the only ways to know for sure. If she refuse's, then I'd let her know exactly how you feel, and I would call her out as a liar,
and tell her to lose ur number.

Any rational thinking woman who feels that she may be pregnant, would not refuse to do a pregnancy test with the may-be-future father present, especially since it would concern both ur futures as well as any baby who might come into the world. It sounds to me as if she is trying to string you along, and possibly extort money from you in future, claiming its for a non-existant baby.

Also in future I would not do any more 1 nighter's with strangers.
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Laying all remarks aside it takes 2 to tango, and if she is playing a game, it is not nice, if she is not she is to be pitied, because she may be a sick lonley woman, but stay away, and see what happens, and watch it in the future, by now she really should know the answer, but strange things do happen  luck  jo
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Sorry, i came on being rude, but things just do not add up, but then what di i know? luck  jo  RockRose may have the right solution, also if she told you she would handle it, just let her alone, and wait and see, its hard, but maybe this is all in her mind.  jo
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13167 tn?1327194124
I smell a boiling rabbit.  : (

I'd just act bland if she calls back - you don't want to make her sabotage you further - just say oh okay.  Um hum,  okay.
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968908 tn?1274871115
Ok, you poor thing, it sounds as if this woman needs some help..... the thing about her having a blood disorder and not being able to do a home pregnancy test...well errrr thats a first!! It sounds very much to me like she is trying her hardest to keep you around and will do anything to do so..... If she has missed a period at her age its more likely to be her menopause, than pregnancy being 50 or so.... think u need to keep well away.  
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