How to tell if she is lying about being pregnant

[JJ220]

Hi,
I recently had a one night stand with an older lady, she is between 46-50 years old. We were both pretty drunk but I used a condom and after the sex remember it was full of my semen and then I flushed it down the toilet. Now this woman came off as a bit of a fantasist, telling me she got messages direct from celebrities on Twitter, claiming she dreamed she would meet somebody in the same job as me (Not that it's very exciting). Fair enough, no problem, it was nice to meet her and I said my goodbyes without giving her my number, although I did tell her where I worked.
Two weeks later she phones me at work randomly for a chat, asking if I'll go back to the club we met. I falsely tell her I have a girlfriend to try and put her off the scent. Then I get a text two weeks later saying she is having morning sickness and thinks she may be pregnant. She says something must have gone wrong and can't take a Home Pregnancy Test as she has a rare blood condition. Is this likely? She says her period is late then mentions that she now has only one tube and doesn't know how this 'happened'. She claims she will go to the doctor in a couple of weeks for a blood test. Then she tells me her boyfriend is coming back from abroad and she is beinf forced to take him back as he has had two heart attacks without her. Even though he is in his 30s.
Is she trying to rope me in or is there a chance she could be telling the truth?
Thanks for your help.

[imanaddict]

The only way to know if she is pregnant or not is to be there at a Dr.appt. Either this woman is psycho or she's really pregnant. I find it odd that a woman that age would lie about something like that. Usually it's the younger girls that pull those types of stunts, so you never know! If she is pregnant and you are the father, it is your responsibility to make sure that child is taken care of. Just because you didn't want it to happen doesn't mean you get to run from it. You play, you pay!

With that said...there is an unlikely chance that she isn't due to her age and having only one tube, but it can't be totally ruled out either. I had my tubes tied and got pregnant and the chances of that are very slim, but it happened. My advice would be to tell her you will be attending the Dr.appt. and to get the name of the doctor and address. If she refuses, then most likely it's a crock. If she does turn out to be pregnant, do a DNA test and go from there. I hope it works out for you!

[Caromar]

I don't think there is a need to be rude to her, who knows, maybe she has her own little world, and maybe, just maybe, she is late because she might be going into menopause!! (some woman go through menopause at really early age even early 40s) if so, there is no need for you to hurt her, my understanding is that it can be tough times! She might be all happy thinking she will have a baby and then find out is just that she is never ever going to have one again...any way, be careful, it sounds to me you are in some deep trouble

[Judy246]

My first response was run for the hills fast, but when you fall into temptations and risky behavior, this can be a possible long term consequense for a quick lustful moment. Was it worth it....hell no! Now you have a possible fatal attraction (lol) with issues, but it did take 2 to tango. Live and learn and now with that said.....RUN FOR THE HILLS :)

[JJ220]

Thanks for taking the time to write guys. It always helps to get another perspective as sometimes your own view can be clouded by what you really want to be true. And in this case its pretty obvious I would love to run away fast!

[jo929]

Tell her she was of age and to do as she pleases but as far as you are concerned to go fly a kite  you might also tell her that you had the mumps when you were 12 and you cant have children, and tell her that she really is to old to have a child, but maybe the boyfriend will put up with it, she is nuts  just kidding, but it does sound like a horror movie and if she is Pg i say it is her fault   luck  jo

[Judy246]

She sound like a "fatal attraction" or  obsession nut case. She's trying to rope you, so use caution and you don't know who she has been sleeping around with, because you really don't know her. Let this be a lesson to you that quicky sex can lead to quicky baby accusation and possibly an STD. If she is pregnant, DNA test and then take it from there, but she sounds like she is trying to rope you and make it real clear that it happened and you are not looking for any type of exclusivity or committed relationship with her.