I think my husband of 2 months, is still in love with his ex-girlfriend. They have a child together that is 10 months old. The child lives with the ex full time, and my husband only gets to see her every other Saturday. He hasn't pushed her for more time with the child, hasn't gotten any solo visitation at all. He tells me that he is working on her in little steps, that he doesn't want to **** her off. He doesn't want to risk not being able to see the child at all, so he keeps the peace. But in doing this, he allows the ex to call all the shots regarding the baby, when he can see the baby, etc. Also, when he does go down there to see the baby, he will take the ex shopping, to the bank, out to lunch, wherever she needs to go. They go and see friends that they have together and meets them at places or visits them in their home.
They are no longer together because she broke things off with him, and he went through major depression to get over it with counseling. I have confronted him if he still is in love with her, but he tells me that he isn't, that he only loves her still as the mother of his child. But his actions tell me otherwise. He writes in the baby's journal that he still loves the baby's mom, and keeps a love note that she wrote him when they were together in our safe. He tells me he doesn't love her anymore, but his actions tell me otherwise. I don't know what to do.