I had been told some devastating news and I took it far with my ex. We hugged, kissed then he put his hands down my pants and fingered me. I then started to stroke him but I needed lubrication and I scooped up some of my vaginal secretion and put it on his penis for lubrication. I needed more so I used my opposite hand to scoop more vaginal secretion. I stopped, he finished fingering me and he finished on his own on my stomach. I cleaned myself and my stomach and that was it. I had just gotten tested in 2 months prior and I was negative. Now I’m terrified I have to go back and get re tested. I went 1 month after this encounter and gyn said everything looked good during vaginal exam but I have some discharge. She said it didn’t smell or have a weird color so I should be okay.
I spoke to my ex and he said he is clean, we separated because we had opposite goals in life.
My question is:
Could I have gotten the clap or gonorrhea? Anything else? Should I go get re tested?
I appreciate the time. Thank you!
You are not at risk for anything here. There's no risk from using hands, or mutual masturbation.
Here are some posts from our experts (when we had them) that may help -
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Nervous-about-mutual-masturbation/show/2183476
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Mutual-Masturbation-STD/show/1968429
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/mutual-masturbation-sti/show/1858544
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Understanding-the-risks-of-mutual-fingering/show/1516796
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Vaginal-fluid-on-hand-touched-inside-of-condom-and-head-of-penis/show/1119533 - read this thread thoroughly. There is an excellent explanation about why certain activities are not risks, and why others are.
You don't need to test, and you don't need to worry at all.