Dont thik about yourself think about your child. If you love your child as much as i think you do than leave ur abusive bf. Your only going to ruin your child's life as well as yours by sticking around. like oprah said LOVE DONT HURT. eventually once u leave ull get over him. its not love if he beats the crap outta you and verbally abuses you.
you said in your post he tells you how he hates you and your kid' your words ..these are not words any child should hear , forget how you feel think of the child ...
Thanks to u all I am looking into my options n I have no idea how there's still love there I never had a real relationship to kno what healthy should be like I guess n it's sad cause unfortantly my son loves him no matter what but he's a kid that dnt kno n I def want him to grow to be a good man n love woman treat them like gold u kno!!!!!it hard after so long n feeling how I do I have to build me back up
It takes two to tango. He abuses you and you allow him to abuse you. Yes, you should walk out the door, but what you need more is a good therapist. Leaving him, without addressing your problems, leaves you vulnerable for yet another abuser.
This is no relationship you are being abused and it will never change you will eventually hate him ..Leave ...nothing else to say .Lots of kind decent men out there looking for a good woman .This is horrible for your child who will always remember it ..leave for the childs sake at least .
the only direction you should be going is through the door,why and how could you love somebody who treats you like this,i just dont get it,he has ruined your life,beat you humiliated you made you feel worthless,and made you do things that you dont want to do,and you say you still loves him,this is not love this is a man who has made you think that this is what a relationship should be like,well it isnt,get out if not fo your sake for the sake of your child.
Hi, You need to get out now don't wait for things to get better (they won't). Don't let your child see this daily. This becomes their reality and the cycle continues. Pack your things and go! He isn't worht it. Don't think twice about it there are shelters for people like you in your situation. Good luck let everyone know how you went.
Get out. You're in a classic abusive relationship. Abusers get a kick out of hurting their partner and then trying to be lovey dovey to con her into thinking it was all right, then doing the whole thing over again. This is TERRIBLE for your child to see. If you can't get out for you, get out for your child, who should be your FIRST priority in your life, not the jerk who is abusing you. Go for counseling, find a women's center or shelter, and LEAVE.