Thank u for the comments. I have been trying not to use, its been 2 days since I used last, (this being the second day). I am upset with myself. I felt bad to keep posting because i said all this stuff of how bad i wanted to be sober, and then used twice, I jsut felt lame and like my word means nothing. I do want to be sober still, each day is very difficult and I think about getting high a lot during the day. The nights are the worst I think. I am trying now to just worry about the day I am in, but its like I will be feeling fine then all the sudden the craving just sneaks up on me and before i even no it im in my car driving to get one or someones coming over with it. Its like i dont even put up a fight. Is this crazy?
Hey HarperOC. Everyone on this board has had setbacks. There are two things we all know: You will never fail if you keep trying. You can never quit forever, just for this minute, this hour, this day...
Also, there is no reason to be ashamed. This is darned difficult. We all respect you and we are all with you, even if you falter. No one will ever scold or disrespect you here (or we'd all be all over them like you know what!). To the contrary, we see a little bit of us in you and your posts are inspiring--even if they don't all bring cheery news.
She's amazing right Tigerlily?!! I don't know why, but I just know that she is.
How are you doing today HarperOC? I hope better, even if it's just a little. Keep posting posting posting like you were before, it will help you!!!!
Harper!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG Honey, I know you feel bad, but its ok. Please get up and dust yourself off and try again! This is not my first time coming off these either, and dear I have relapsed too many times to count. But its ok, I heard somewhere its not how many times you fall down, all that really matters is that you get back up one more time than you fell down! Im here for you, Im keeping you in my prayers, please send me a message if you need to talk! Like tiff said I soooo wish I had your number I would call you right now! I feel like I know you and I know you are SOOO WORTH THIS!!!! Get back up and try again!!!
Keep your head up girl. There's lots of people here who have screwed up TEN times before they actually got clean. You can do this, just get back up. Did you change your phone number? You have to be stronger than the addiction. When you're feeling depressed and down like you want to use distract yourself, stay on here and post. Last night you disappeared before I posted, I was thinking "da mn i wish I had her phone number I would soooo call her right now!" You CAN do this. Stop letting your mind talk you out of it. You say you don't know what to do, just keep going. Start again, and keep going until you succeed! Maybe write a letter to the pills like Tigerlily did ( i think that's who it was?) Did you make goals? Like Gnarly always says you have to be proactive !! You can do this Harper!!!
You screwed up again? What did you do exactly? Been reading your posts and I see your struggle....