THank you. It's really nice to heave someone to talk to. even though i'm not currently addicted to anything, this is where i came when i was and it's very therapeutic. He does know how i feel. He's the one who made the 'decision' to go. It just hurts. that's all. I guess i was half hoping theres no where hed rather be on this day but supporting me. Friday i found out how badly the cancer had spread and what my ooptions are. I'm thinking about moving back to seattle. I moved out to PA becuase he's in med school here and he wanted us here. but i feel like a nanny, mistress, maid, and that's about it. Nothing more and nothing less. I'm ALWAYS alone.......ANd not to be rude but a lot of his friends are really snooty becuase they're all either in med school or law school..I mean i'll go out with them....but sometimes they are so superficial....and talk about things that really don't matter to me. i'm not downtalking them, i'm just lonely i guess. ANd the bad thing is that lately i have really been contemplating having an affair...i watched a movie called little children and in it it has kate winslet and a man who are both married to other people and unhappy, and they start an affari....and i feel so sinful even thinking it but it was SO refreshing...she was all giddy and excited to see him at the kiddy pool every day..she had something to look forward to. And i sometimes wonder....I am a pretty good looking girl....intelligent, fit, tan, ...? why not me...? this is so wrng..........i defintalely need help..
I'm sorry to hear this. No one likes to be alone on Valentines Day, especially in a situation like this. He should know this. Is there anyway that you let him know you wanted him to stay?? Today is not only valentines for me but is my one-year anniversary w/my g/f. We are both very busy today with work and classes but we are celebrating tomorrow. Hang in there, everything will be ok. Until he gets back, try to keep busy and your mind off it because this will just make you more depressed. Work out, read a book, etc. and when he does return let him know how you feel. If he really loves you and is sorry about the situation he will make it up to you. Hope this advice helps!