why are

[mandapanda928]

Girls always mean to me? and I'm never mean to anyone. I sued to get bullied when i was younger and it has truly effected me so i made videos about that and bpd on youtube and have more dislikes then i have likes. And i know it's this one girl that doesn't like me? But i make these videos for helping others not to get disliked or judged . I just will never understand? It makes me sad and makes me want to cry.

[mandapanda928]

Thank you so much you guys this information really helped me a lot.  I just get really upset easily, and sometimes when I'm upset i get a little overwhelmed with sadness. Thank you for your honesty, and glad to hear that you have overcome bullying that happened to you. It's a sad thing in this world.

[ILADVOCATE]

   Yes its important to reflect on the people who liked the video and think that you might have made a difference in those people's lives. People who bully other people will carry over that activity online because of being anonymous. They tend to do that everywhere although they shouldn't. Its not particularly directed at one person. Education in this area is essential and you are doing the right thing.
    I was bullied throughout junior high school and high school. At the suggestion of a social worker in my senior year I wrote the school newspaper about it. People asked me if I had written it and had a positive reaction. Someone told me the year after it was used in the health education class as part of the program to teach students about this. However I am sure some people had a negative reaction as well.Think about the people who reacted positively and perhaps if some of them engaged in this behavior they might have thought things over and changed.

[Sasha90]

A big reason people make fun of others is because they are trying to make themselves feel better about something in their life. I was bullied a lot when I was younger, now when I see people from school they have changed. They have not accomplished as much as people thought they would. some are in horrible relationships, and many have already had children at a young age. Also people who make fun of others sometimes dont have parents who are there for them, or their parents make them feel bad about themselves or push them too hard. Kids/Teens especially girls will take their anger and sadness out on others. Don't let them bother you. Just remember that they are also going through hard times in their life. Instead of being angry or crying over what they said be happy because in the long run you are at a better place in your life then them.