Is it OCD? not sure but then, I'm not a doctor so... talk to one, I would think, if you have depression building to that degree. I have 'OCD' myself, and I recognize some of what you go through - the building up of stress, and then it comes out in 'OCD" ways - for me, it involves thinking I am sick, or that something I have used or touched is 'contaminated' somehow, and I obsess over whether I handled things correctly. I agree w/ Jeff that you are using a lot of 'energy' - energy that could be channeled in more positive ways. At least that is my own situation. I finally went to a psychiatrist and got some meds (citalopram). It's still early, and a work in progress, but even with the low dose I am on, I am doing better. I can't answer what your thoughts about your fiancee represent - whether they're valid concerns, second thoughts, or the ruminating and repetition that characterizes OCD. I'm not a medical person of any stripe, just a fellow sufferer here - I hope you speak w/ a doctor / preferably a psychiatrist, to see whether there is any meds or perhaps therapy of some sort e.g. cbt, that might help and they can also determine if what you're suffering IS 'OCD' or some other form of anxiety. Good luck - hope things get better soon.
Hello richtaz
dont be sad
The Depression creates frustration to the person all time and ocd thoughts is a subsequent case after the depression... like this "telling me i dont love my fiancee its killing me " ....the Cause: most of the time you are busy thinking.. and you are thinking about the past.... i think you have huge energy must to be discharged as you feel "getting irritable" .. but not this is method.
Put a limit to this thoughts and you must take vacation 1 week and getting relax time with your fiancee and forget everything in your diary