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stress and vomiting

Hey im 12 and i've just broken up with my girlfriend, she can't make up her mind wether she still wants me. She sends me mixed messages and then acts like she has no idea whats happened after using me.
I find it hard to say no but her messages make me nervous. I am sick every morning and it's affecting me at school to, i spend most of my time in the toilet crying and occasionally being sick. I also find it very hard to eat, I'm so hungry and i'm sick of my ex calling me bulimic. Does anyone know whats wrong ???
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have you only been feeling like this since this girl has been acting like this with you? if so then tell her to leave you alone,ignore her and move on when she sees she doesn,t bother you anymore she will stop harrassing you good luck
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good glad you made it clear to her and you are ok
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thank you, i am still friends with her but i made it clear that it wasn't going to be anymore. She understands and I'm ok :)
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It might be a good idea to talk with someone.  Do you think at 12 you're really going to meet your lifetime love?  Hardly likely.  This will happen many times before you find the right one.  Anyone who doesn't appreciate you isn't worth your time.  So what you're doing is acting rationally, breaking up, but obsessing over it in your mind.  That's what you really need to confront, not this particular person.  Happy hunting.
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Great advice from above.  Make up her mind for her! Don't allow her to toy with your feelings. If this just started then know that you will have many girlfriends in the future, and as you mature you will not find this immaturity from a girlfriend.  Enjoy your youth, time goes by very quickly.
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