Yep, I thought those symptoms sounded familiar. And actually, her early symptoms were very much like ADHD. Here is a link that you might be interested in.
http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/2511.html
I assume that medications have been tried but didn't work. Trouble is, if all they were medicating for was bipolar or maybe just ADHD, things might not have worked as thats a tricky combo to deal with.
And unfortunately, as kids get older they tend to go off their meds and that really will mess them up.
If you don't mind telling - what kind of meds or combination of meds have they tried?
yes they have and she was diagnosed with that to. She has been clinically diagnosed as; a psychopath pyromaniac, pathological liar, manipulator, child conduct disorder (until she is 18 and then it gets reclassified as Adult Conduct disorder), cruelty, attention seeker, and she has NO empathy at all.
Has any doctor looked at her possibly being bipolar?
i left her bio dad when she was just 3 years old because he was abusing me..he never hurt her or my oldest son... she has lived a great life with me and my husband her step dad. to answer your question nothing has happened that we know of that would cause her to act out like this.. we had a dr tell us once that its more then likely that she was born like this and there is nothing that could have been done to change what she has become...for the longest time i blamed myself because nothing i did ever helped her and ive bent over backward trying to help her and to understand her...its so hard to look at her now.. how did my baby that i gave birth to turn into this person that i dont even know? i dont understand..... i may never know what caused this...what i do know is we cant live like this anymore its not fair to our other children or to us...
yes we have done everything we know to do and nothing works..we have talked to social workers in the past and they have told us if we just give her up that we would be charged with abandonment.. she gets in home counseling and outside counseling but she is able to fool them...they dont see what the rest of us see because she is able to pretend so well with them..all they want to see is the troubled little girl they dont want see who and what she really is..im at a loss i dont know what to do...i come to see that nothing is going to change its only getting worse and there is nothing that is going to help her... i dont want to give up on my daughter but i feel i have no choice...its hard to turn your back on your on child but she is hurting our whole family and i worry about other children.. we are living in pure hell and it seems like there is no way out...
Oh wow, your post is shocking. Your daughter sounds very troubled, I'm sorry. So, it seems you've had her evaluated numerous times?
I hate to say it, but I would try to petition the courts to place her outside the home. The main reason being the safety and well being of your other children and you and your husband. She does NOT sound safe to be among the younger children. She's already shown that she's not just "barking" with her threats of violence, she's acted on them, and continues to threaten very violent acts.
I wish I had better advice for you, I cannot imagine being in that situation. Do you think perhaps something happened to her when she was young? It IS odd that she's the only one behaving this way out of all of your children. She absolutely needs intensive, ongoing, long term professional help (and supervision). The sad part about professional treatment is that as manipulative and dishonest as she is, I doubt they would get anywhere with her. She'd REALLY have to change and decide she WANTED things to improve for any kind of professional intervention to be successful.
I hope something changes for you, and for her. You and your daughter are in my prayers. I'm sure this is just heart wrenching. Shes' your child and you love her, but you're fearful of her, which is both sad and unfortunate. Good luck.