Can't keep an erection

[leanne255]

Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now for the first 18 months the sex was great he was a bit quick but it was fantastic! The last few months things have been very different. He can never get an erection and when he does it doesn't stick around for long. He has told me that he loves me more everyday and his feelings for me haven't changed. When we are having sex he gets very tired very quickly and then he looses his erection. He is a little overweight so he blaims it on that. Being a girl the first
Thing that goes through my head is he doesn't find me attractive anymore but
I know that isn't true.  But it just seems like he has given up trying cos he knows it's not going to happen, before this he had a very high sex drive but now it's like he has given up with our sex
Life. Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks

[NOHARD]

Hi Yolaine, there are lots of herbal things you could try, but just don't rely on one to do the trick, as I cant use erection drugs I have a whole list of herbs and a hormone that I take, and they do work, once you find the right mix your away, or should say he would be, if you want my list PM me.
Good Luck

[Yolaine]

I had the same problem and I find something to new to help getting my sexual life back. It's not a medicine because me boyfriend and I didn't want to get chemical help. It's simply a penis support. It's very light and the sensation are the same. It was really helpful to us. I really got my boyfriend self-confidence back, it is called Klipdomm.

Hope this will be helpful to you.

[leanne255]

He went to the doctors and they are going to do a testosterone blood test to check his levels. This is a awful situation I feel so bad for not supporting him fully when this is proberly 10 times as bad for him. Hopefully we will have a diagnosis through the blood test and he can sort it right treatment and he will be back to himself *fingers crossed*

[leanne255]

yes he does masturbate, to porn or not I'm not sure... He went to the doctors the other day and they are doing some blood test to check for diabetes and check his testosterone levels... But other than that the doctors say its a mental thing, something has changed mentally in the last couple of months doesn't look very positive outcome for our relationship I'm afraid But thank you for the advice

[NOHARD]

Hi Leanne, First if he is packing on the pounds, then that has to stop, do you know if he is a porn watcher, and if he masturbates to it at the same time, from what your saying it sounds very much like porn induced ED,
See how you get on.
Please come back and let me know.
Good Luck

[AnnieBrooke]

He should see the doctor and get any physical issues ruled out.