ungle is dying of cancer

[edith929]

i  really  need  some   help   and  someone  to  talk    to     on  a  a  very  touchy   subject   in  our  family     my  ungle    has  battleling  with  cancer    for  the  past  six  yrs  i  know  that  is  a  long  time       know  it  is  to  the  point     where  he  in  pain  all  the  time     and  he  sleeps  all  the  time        me  and  my  mom  were  over  there  last  week  and  my  aunt  told  him  we  were  here     he  opened  his    eyes  and  held  our  hand     and  then  closed  his  eyes  again       we  hoping  it  wont  take  long      he  is  in  so  much  pain      he  doesnt  eat  anymore      he  only  gets  liquids    i  am  getting  upset   as  im  writting    this  i  really  need  someone  to  talk  to       i  joined  another  forum     last  week  and  still  nobody  is  talking  to  me       in  that  forum            

[edith929]

sorry  i  havent    posted  in  a  while      i  lost  the  sight  web  address     and  now  i  got  it  back     my  aunt  is  doing  okay     she  really  misses  him  alot    during  the  holidays       we  know  what  she  is  going    through    my  dad  started   getting  sick  about  this  time  in  2001     before  he  died      so  we  know  what  it  is  like      my  aunt  wants  to  go  to  st  louise    for  christmas      but  we  got  a  major  snow  storm      last  night  so  we  dont  know  if  or  when  she  is  going      we  live  in  colorado      it  is  going  to  take  about   28  hours  to  get  there  my  mom  doesnt  want  her  to  go    but  she  under  stands  that  she  has  to  be   with  her  family  

[mommy52]

It was so good to hear from you and know you are doing as well as expected. These times of the year are hard for any experiencing grief. We all have been there or still there. Pleasekeep talking. I even talk to a stuffed animal or our pet if no one else available. I get so confused, I can't even get my feelings out sometimes. Nonetheless I still try. I do know we need not to keep things inside and to ourselves. I am glad you felt like talking about your Dad and his death. I hope it helps to talk about it. For me it does. I am thankful that I found this site. I can express my feelings and thoughts and do not have to see the expressions of those reading them. If someone is reading my post and doesn't want to finish--they can stop and I never know it. On the other hand, if they read it and wish to comment--then no matter whether I like what they say or not, I know they cared enough to comment. Remember I'm here. May sound a little flaky at times, but I do care. Keep in touch. Prayers to your family.
To : 98acer- So sorry to hear about the death of your Dad  this past year (good friday) Do know that we here are for you also as you approach the holidays . We are here for not only the holidays but for all days. Main thing is not to keep feelings to yourself. Others are out here and they care and are there for you.  Love you both.  Madlyn

[98acer]

i lost my dad good friday of this year your dad sonds like mine lol i miss him ...but it is hard to talk about my dad some times somy dad died of lung canser......so sorry you ungel passaway....ti is hard to i will prat for your famly ......may god bless you

[edith929]

he    died  very  suddenly     five  days  after  christmas  2001    he  got  very  sick  on  christmas   eve   we  thought   he  had  the  flu        four  days  later  his  kidneys  shut  down      for  no  reason     hes  already  had  several    heart  attack     so  he  didnt  like  hospitals      he  was  a  gentle  man    most  of  the  time     he  sometimes  wouild  blow  up       we  just  left  him  alone  at  those  times      the  day  he  died   me  and  my  sister  went  to  drop  off   some  blood  work  for  him     and  then  we  went  to  a  pet  shop   we  were  only  gone  for  an  hour  and  half      and  he  died  while  we  were  going  back  home        my  aunt  is  doing  better      she  is  leaving  for  st  louise     a couple  days  after  thanksgiving       to  be  with  her  granchildren    she  might  be  gone  till  after  christmas      

[edith929]

i  didnt  have  axcess   to  a  computer  for  quit  a  while      mine  crashed    and   my  moms   wasnt  working  well      we  got  my  moms  fixed  today    and  mine  is  going  to  get    hooked  up  tommarrow     with  none  of  our  working     we  got  back  locked    my  aunt    is  doing  better      

[mommy52]

I haven't seen you post in a while. How's things going for you. Keep in touch and know that if ever you need to talk, I'm here.   Madlyn