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ungle is dying of cancer
i really need some help and someone to talk to on a a very touchy subject in our family my ungle has battleling with cancer for the past six yrs i know that is a long time know it is to the point where he in pain all the time and he sleeps all the time me and my mom were over there last week and my aunt told him we were here he opened his eyes and held our hand and then closed his eyes again we hoping it wont take long he is in so much pain he doesnt eat anymore he only gets liquids i am getting upset as im writting this i really need someone to talk to i joined another forum last week and still nobody is talking to me in that forum
they are not bringing him home he had a restless night so the docter wants to adjust his pain medicine also its hospice that wont let us see him they say that only family can see him are they really that strict i have a three year old nephew that calls my ungle cha cha he is really close to him he keeps on asking when he couild see cha cha he had not seen him in about a month my dad died in 2001 and he keeps on asking where granpa is he sees his picture on my mom nightstand what do we tell him he is very smart little boy shouild his mom talk to him she is my sister
i think its because i get emotional very easy and so does she everyday i ask how hes doing and right away i start crying and it is hard on my aunt also she is very emotional state right now i respect that all his kids are back and forth so my aunt always has someone with her their daughter is going to stay til the end the docter gave my ungle proply only about 2 weeks if not more or less but he doent know my ungle he will fight until he can fight nomore
I am not sure I understand why your mom does not want you to see him anymore unless it is save you the pain of seeing him in this condition. I personally believe that it should be your choice. I commend his wife for bringing him home to let him dye, but that is a very hard thing to do. I think you should really discuss with your mother why you want to see your uncle. Maybe if she understood, she will be more willing to let you see him.
they are bringing him home tommarrow my mom said we cant see him all i want to do is just touch him one more time he has no more bone tissue left so everytime we do touch him it hurts him they arnt doing any thing for him except iv for the pain his wife was with him all weekend in the hospital two of the kids are staying with mom and there third son had to go back home for a couple of days so that he couild come when it does happen i am hoping it wont take long he is drifting in and out of coma but he told his wife he wanted to go home so that is where he is going he is really fighting this battle
Watching someone you love die is not an easy thing to do, and having noone to talk to about it is even harder. On April thirteenth I stood by my uncles bed as he took his last breath and next to losing my father it was the second hardest thing I have ever done. My uncle had spent fifteen years being sick and should have died several times in those years, but his body just would not give up. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
he went in to the hospital on friday because his was bleeding and wouildnt stop until yesterday he is pretty much in a coma since last night they are going to keep him there until it happens im sure it wont take long they got him on very poweral pain medicine hes went so long with his body isnt giving up that easy
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