sorry about not getting back to earlier girls its been a busy week we had a lot of company our house is full of relatives for the funeral which is today we really miss him so much last night was the viewing they had a slide show of his life my aunt is being very brave but i know she will let it out after everyone is gone but me and my mom will be there for her
I'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my uncle to liver cancer on my 18th birthday. He was diagnosed in September of 01 and by Dec '01 he was gone. So if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I myself am getting ready to go through another one. My uncle has slowly been getting worse and they had to take him back into icu today. For me this will be number 15 of my aunts and uncles. My parents each had 12 siblings so death is a constant in my life. Sadly, each one gets harder and harder.
i wanted to thank everyone who responded to me he had a very peaceful night my aunt and two of there kids were holding hands with him all night we just found out at 10.30 this morning that he died he fought a hard battle he lasted until the end ill keep in touch sorry i couildnt get to you earlier but they lost my password and everthing when they shut down last night
here is an upda te he is is pretty much in a comma yhey are going to keep him in the hospital because every time they move him hes in pain his wife and two of there kids are always there hospice will only let them in there so me and my mom cant see him neither can my sisters hes not breathing very well and his kidneys are shutting down im afraid it wont take long since we own a retitrment home we cant leave and go there whrn it happens so we got somebody that will stay the weekend if they have to my mom wants to be there for her sister weve had this facility for 20 yrs and we lost quit a lot residents in the yrs weve been open when all this is over can i talk about my dad christmas is really hard for us he got sick on christmas eve and died five days later in 2001
I think that you need to explain to him that your dad went to heaven and that is where your uncle is going. Just keep it simple because he won't undestand much, but you need to be honest. Children should only be told things in the level that they can understand and never anything more, as they get older you will be able to add more details.