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Im white male 21 and stupidly had intoxicated unprotected vaginal with a girl I later found out has been with 20 guys from her. it was about 25-40 minutes and I stopped!  3 wks later woke up with red rash on head of my penis was there for almost 2 mths. it was red bumps. a week later I got sick(4wks after). white spots on my tonsils,pink eye, mild fever off and on, cough, swollen glands and lymph nodes in my neck, and one behind my ear and diarrah. also I started having pain in testies and after getting off. I had a negitive strep and mono spot test, but too ammox just in case. it went away in about 3 days,but have had a sore throat for 3 months and swollen tonsils and glands and SOB or at least pressure in chest area that comes and goes. also I get these red blood spots on the inside of my cheeks. they will be there for a few days then there gone and come back. seem to always be gone when I go to docs. tests are as follows:
8wks negitive HIV rapid
neg chalymdia,Gon, trich
9weeks neg HIV
10 wks neg HIV,HEPB,shyphilis,normal CBC
11 wks undetec. Viral load
14 wks neg HIV
15 wks neg HIV.
Docs tell me I need to retest at 6 months
Questions:
1) would the ammox I took before the chalymdia,Gon, Trich test killed it if it was there, which would have made me test negitive. it was urinalysis doc thought I had it bc of pain after ejac and in testies.

2)what could cause the red blood spots inside cheeks that come and go
3) could I still be going through seroconversion, should I be concerend with HEP C

4 does HIV casue a rash on head of penis,could it?
5)is there still a chance this might be HIV, please be honest, ARS?

6) would a rapid mono test pick up EBV? also if that was the cause woldnt my current GF have it
7) my current GF/fiance has been tested and negitive when is the point we can go back to having unprotected sex ? she is on BC
what would you look for ?
HEP A, C, D????
please elaberate as much as you can and please be honest .thank you ive read CDC stats

docters want to re test at 6 months.
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I would like to think that also but damn this sucks .also stress does not casue lymph nodes to swell to pea sized on both sides of my neck and behind my ear. I just want to know whats going on it doesnt seem like theres an answer though.
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I would like to think that also but damn this sucks .also stress does not casue lymph nodes to swell to pea sized on both sides of my neck and behind my ear. I just want to know whats going on it doesnt seem like theres an answer though.
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Get a pair of wire cutters or strong scissors.

Cut your Internet connection.

Get out more, get some fresh air and exercise.
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"playing", touching your nodes causes swelling and pain.  So if you are "poking" them, please stop.

The last time I had nodes swelling around my neck and ears are when I have a painless gum infection.  After a visit to the dentist to clean up the 'dirt" the swelling stop.....

Suggest you see a doctor for your problem.  But I am sure it is not HIV related.

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okay i Just have a hard time leting this go because of the rash on the penis for 2 months, and the red spots in my mouth that come and go. it just seems like it has to be sexually transmitted being I had the rash on the head of my penis? you know what I mean. it jsut seems like that was the portal of entry! please give me your thoughts?
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Rash on your wee man has nothing to do with HIV. It is probably not even an infection.
Brush and floss every day for good oral health.

You could be lacking in blood, what with all the unecessary samples that have been drawn. Your arm, must be like a dartboard now, have you any veins left? Can you wear short sleeves without people thinking you're an intravenous drug user?

Paroxetine has been proven effective at treating OCD.

YOU DO NOT  HAVE HIV

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