please help

[scared411]

hello i am a 23 year old male uncircumsized had unprotected vaginal intercourse with a asian sexworker jan 18th 3 weeks later i got a stuffy nose sore throat night sweats excessive sweating in normal room temp sore muscles and was feeling completly run down this lasted a week after this i started to get a rash all over my neck behind my ears and face and the outer part of my hands i went and got tested 7 weeks and 5 days after my exposure everything came back neg i am now at 10 weeks and the rashes still come and go kind of like pinkish boils and some look like red lines i also have sores in my mouth and one on the roof of my mouth with feels like a blister with a white tongue i am totally freaked out and scared and convinced i have hiv the doctor at the clinic gave me a rapid blood test and said it was conclusive because it would of showed up and i was at low risk however i am not convinced can someone please tell me if this sounds like hiv or stress and anxiety it seems everytime i forget about it a new symptom pops up and i have been feeling nausous and have lost my appetite  

[Uniquelymen]

Like mentioned 3 months is the universal guideline for now.

[Teak]

If you would have asked your testing clinic they would have told you 3 months is conclusive.

[scared411]

yea doctor hansfield of whatever his name is told me go get tested at 6-8 weeks conclusive man i am totally confused now he said 6-8 weeks a lot of sites say 6 months and you guys say 3 months dont get me wrong i really apreciate the info im just scared out of my mind now and dont know what to do im not sure if i even want to go back a 12 weeks and get tested the 8 week mark was hard enough when you say remote what do you mean? and i read on thebody.com most are positive by 25 days is that true? are those rapid test even accurate or are they not as sensitive so they give a lot of false negatives sorry about all the questions guys im just going CRAZY

[Teak]

If you wanted a conclusive test result you wasted your money. Does that mean your test is going to change at 3 months not likely but the only way to know is to get a conclusive test result at 3 months. You could have waited for 3 months and took the test once and been done with it.

[Uniquelymen]

If you test negative at 6/8 weeks the likelihood that will change by 12 weeks is remote.  But 6/8weeks is not conclusive.

[scared411]

i dont understand why the doctors on here would say to go get tested at 6-8 weeks and have me waste my time and money? did i just waste 45 dollars to ask them on here? i have never ever had a flu or cold that felt the way this one did and i have have never had diaherea for two weeks straight or had these rashes or sores in my mouth if its not hiv than i dont know what else it could be everytime i look up my symptoms online hiv always pops up