after the treatment will my wife ever be herself again

[depressedhusband]

My wife has her last treatment he 20th of feb and wee would have been married a year feb 22. She has been mad all week and today became violent and told me she hated me and she wanted a divorce. so I dont know what to think.I have tried very hard to be supportive but the last month she has been getting meaner and  very hurtful. All she wants is her dogs and we went from one to four since may. She has kicked me out of our bedroom and treats me like a dog..know they sleep with her so worse. I was marrried to an abusive woman for 11 years and I said never again. I dont want to give up on my wife I love her but she has me so stressed out that  I am onmeds for depression  and it is just getting worse,she informed me that this is her home I dont have one.

[jt57]

so so sorry you are having to bear this!  I do so hope this ends with the treatment.  I have found myself to be very mean, hateful, etc., to my significant other and really find that he TRULY gets on my nerves these days.....but I know in my heart that I love him and that this is as hard on him as it is me.   I am so self absorbed in how badly I am feeling, that I truly do not have any more to give.  I just pray he can hang in there with me and all will get better when the meds are out of my system.  I think that will happen.

Just be patient with her, and KNOW that it is not you, it is the meds making her feel this way..

Best of luck to you both.

Jean