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551885 tn?1300383822

Heartbroken...again

Well, I just got back from the emergency room after my spotting picked up today, then got heavy.  They did an exam and found the conception tissue coming out.  He thought it was a blighted ovum.  I just can not believe after all I have been through that this has happened.  I am just so sad and lost
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551885 tn?1300383822
tiger, gmb, cacey and mapes-  Thankyou all.  yes it really is so tough, especially since I am now in limbo of what is happening.  I still have all pregnancy symptoms, but I think they might finally be getting less today.  I think I still might have an u/s done to see if I need a D&C, I am not even sue how my dr was able to diagnose a blighted ovum without having an u/s machine.  So now I just want this to be over so we can start to ttc again.  It is what gets me through these horrible times is knowing I can get pregnant, and although the time before this there was something wrong with my baby, at least I know I can carry one...the question just remains...when is it ever going to be our time for the bad luck to change?
I am still also waiting to bleed, i would really think I should start to bleed out something...?
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552389 tn?1280546208
There are just no words to express how sad we all feel for you now.  I had a pretty bad week at school last week because we lost a student to suicide.  I can't imagine the loss his parents are feeling, and it just echoes the pain I know you feel.  Don't lose your faith because God will carry you through these times.  For some reason, He has a special time that he wants your baby to be here.  I like to think that God has some amazing plan for my baby, and He wants the baby here at just the right time.  Maybe that's just trying to rationalize it, but He does have plans for us all.  Take care of yourself, and I pray that you and DH will be able to conceive soon.  BIG HUGS, and we all care about you so much!!!
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637951 tn?1257270344
Dani I am just devestated for you. When I saw the headline I was praying it wasn't you. My principal has had 3, and has 2 healthy children, so never give up hope. I know there is nothing anyone can say to make you feel any better, I'm crying as I type to you, and I just wish you the best. I will be praying for you and your husband. You WILL get through this and be a wonderful mother!
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650416 tn?1274711495
my mouth just dropped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cant believe this dani....i just dont understand....but then again maybe we arent meant too.........i recoginize your pain honey......and if there is anything that i can do.............you are in my thoughts and prayers.........ahh.....
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550943 tn?1330727580
Oh Dani, I can't believe you are going through this.  I wish i was there to give you a big cuddle. I wish i could say or do something to take away your pain. I am so devestated and can't imagine what you're going through having to deal with this again. Armyprincess is right, you are a true inspiration to all women out there. Your courage is admirable. I'm praying you will get pregnant again soon. Please know i'm thinking of you and DH.
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623156 tn?1322865851
Dani you have such an awesome disposition. Really you are an example to all of us. You have completely shown me how strong women really are. I'm so impressed by your strength. Keep your head up Dani you are a great person and you will have your baby in your arms sooner than later. Take it easy in the meantime rest up!!! I'm here always. Take care and big big hugs to you!!!!! Tell your dh he's in my thoughts too!!!!
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