Heartbroken...again

[Dani711]

Well, I just got back from the emergency room after my spotting picked up today, then got heavy.  They did an exam and found the conception tissue coming out.  He thought it was a blighted ovum.  I just can not believe after all I have been through that this has happened.  I am just so sad and lost

[steph9803]

Dani...I'm so sorry...I am just sitting here crying...Like the other's have said I wish we could all be with you right now. I have been so busy I wasn't even online today. When I saw the post I was scared to read it...And yes you are an inspiration. I promise I would not be looking at it the way you are right now. I'll say a prayer for you and your family...
*HUGS*
Steph

[Luckejem]

I am so sorry for your loss, but don't loose hope, keep on trying and have faith, you will have your baby

[YogaChick]

Hey Dani-- I'm so very sorry this is happening.  I don't have the words to express how sad I am for you but wanted you to know you're in my thoughts.  

I know you're going through a lot and I don't want to diminish this loss in any way but did want to try and give you some hope for when you're ready to try again... there are a lot of ways to work around some of the genetic issues that could be causing problems: my DH has a kidney issue in his family & my Dr. said they can actually sort out embryos with the problem before they do an IVF transfer... it's amazing stuff so I'm sure if there is an underlying problem there will be ways to work around it & get your next beautiful baby to term & into your arms.

[Dani711]

The dr. said he had delivered over 400 babies, and he was pretty young, so I am guessing he was an OB since he talked about all his patients that he saw from the begining til end...he said out of all those patients, 23 had had m/c's.
He seemed to know what he was talking about, but still wish I could have seen an u/s.

I really don't think i am an inspiration, I think IF any of you ever have to go through this again you would see that as unfair and heartbreaking as it is, we have to keep moving forward.  DH is going to church tonite and I would like to go with him to really test my faith and see how I feel, but without having a clue if i am going to start bleeding (I only ever did bleed like a panty liners worth) so I am afraid it is going to happen at any time now, and church is really not where I want it to happen.  I have comfort it being in my own home...so he is going to go and pray for our family!

Oh, it is now like the brown after AF...I really think If i didn't go last night I would still think i was preg since am still having so much trouble with food...but the bb pain is not like it was at all.

[dnpt]

Try to relax and be optimistic, also see a RE when you feel up to it. I am now 24 weeks pregnant and had loss two little boys one at 20 weeks the other at 25 weeks my obgyn detected that i had a uterine anomaly she sent me to the RE  and after further testing he told me  i had a septate uterus which he operated on and now so far so good. So best of luck to you . I will keep you in my prayers.(((((hugs)))))

[nunu1977]

what kind of dr did you see. was he an ER dr that has experience with pregnancy etc? just curious