Tmi.......... pls help my bf keeps watching porn

[mrsohara]

hey ladys !!
my bf aint to good at showing affection and i keep finding him having been watching porn on his moble instead of spending time in bed with me

the searches are of compleate opposit of me
is it becoz i am gaining weight with pregnancy?
dont i do it for him anymore?
i dont no how to react as each time i have found this he says he loves me and dont no why he do it.......

i need real womens opinion as i dont no what to do next
my gut tells me the realtionship must be breaking down
and i feel like he must not love or care for how i feel

[mamaof4410]

And when I want to I can totally be dirtier than those bimbos in the porn movies!! If you cant beat em join em!

[mamaof4410]

My dh does it. I learned not to let it bother me. We have sex everyday sometimes twice a day. He only really looks at that and goes on craigslist and looks at all of the ones with pics when hes using the toliet. Seriously I let that ship sail a long time ago. I know Im not ugly and I know the problem isnt me so I dont let it bother me. And I go back into the history just to be nosey an d watch some of the videos hes watched. The girls are mostly acting. I watched a thing with Jenna Jameson giving an interview and she even said its all fake. It gives the fantasy. Ask yourself this...Would you rather him watch porn and touch himself (if he does) or would you rather he ditch you a couple times a week and have sex with someone else? Logical question.
Amd Im with MISSKELLEE watch a video and have a great orgasm. You cant take an awesome nap when your done. SERIOUSLY!

[aprilbabymama]

I agree mrsohara I have the exct same problem. I've considered walking away but he always begs me to stay. I feel if he was totally satisfied with me & our sex was what he wanted there s no need for porn. It will probably end our relationship. It makes me feel unwanted & ugly. & it makes me not want to be with him romantically because I feel he's thinking of another porn star . I thought I was beautiful until the past few months. So I totally understand what your saying.

[Danbri]

If it upsets you, you don't just need to put up with it or tolerate it.  You really should tell him how you feel about it.  I personally don't want my husband watching it because it makes me feel insecure.  He knows this and respects this.  

[mamapanda123]

Hmm this can be a tough one. My fiance is NOT aloud to look at porn I caught him once and he stopped. In my opinion If you love someone that should be the only person you should want to see naked ever. I consider looking at porn cheating because he's going out of his way to see a nother women naked and to bring him sexual satisfaction. I was so pissed and hurt when I him caught mostly cause he lied to me a said he didn't when we first got together.  I Told him if I caught him I again I wad leaving and he hasn't in over a year. I think you should talk to your bf about it again and really try to get him to understand how you feel. I grew up in a house full of boys where my dad taught my brothers that it was there right to look at porn and to see something naked when ever they please. It totally disgusted me hence why I'm strongly against porn.

[MissKellee]

heres my AWESOME advice......find a porn website, think of something you find is a turn on, watch the video and give yourself an orgasm! :) its fun! lol.
my bf watches porn...but i think i watch it more than him! LOL...

it hurts when he and i have sex (im about to pop) so i know whats comfortable for me. just start giving yourself pleasure...maybe he might get jealous and then just wanna have sex with you and not touch himself lol