Tmi.......... pls help my bf keeps watching porn

[mrsohara]

hey ladys !!
my bf aint to good at showing affection and i keep finding him having been watching porn on his moble instead of spending time in bed with me

the searches are of compleate opposit of me
is it becoz i am gaining weight with pregnancy?
dont i do it for him anymore?
i dont no how to react as each time i have found this he says he loves me and dont no why he do it.......

i need real womens opinion as i dont no what to do next
my gut tells me the realtionship must be breaking down
and i feel like he must not love or care for how i feel

[tasha_labruyere]

I agree totally. I think watching porn is unacceptable your with me. And watching porn to me is cheating. He wouldn't like it if I sat around watching and looking up pictures about big d**ks all day so why watch naked girls. I've gotten to the point where I told him I'd leave him if he watches it nemore and he hasn't since. I know this because I can see his Internet on my cell phone bill.

[mrsohara]

tbh i dont no any more

[ftm2013]

I agree to a point! My man loves me tells me everyday I'm beautiful tells me he loves my new curves cuddles with me as much as ill let him lol 10 years together and he still holds my hand when we watch TV on the couch. Im very comfortable in our relationship! I've never had to wonder if he still loves me or is attracted to me. You said you feel like the passion is gone right? Ask yourself if the passion was still there and he treated you the way you need to be right now and cuddled with you all the time would the porn honestly bother you that bad? I guess I'm trying to say look at the really issue is it the porn or.....is it the fact that you feel like the passion in the relationship is gone and he's no longer attracted to you?

[virgomami2]

My baby daddy does it all the time I'm fine with it cause I'm not always in the mood but we even watch together

[isha69]

No, you're not wrong. These women seem to not be listening to you..
Sometimes it's not as simple as watching it together or fearing hurting the
baby.
My boyfriend and I would watch it sometimes, but he knows I'm against it.
He's not afraid of hurting me or the baby, and likes our intimate time, but it doesn't happen often.
He would hide all of his porn and be secretive.. He still lies to me and hides everything. It's a bad habit that some guys fall into, and it really strains a relationship.

[mrsohara]

i agree that when ur mans attracted to you no one else would turn him on and having time with you should be very important and most importantly when pregnant and feeling not so good about ur body he should be loving ur growth more amd more instead of getting off to videos of almost perfect women with fake lips boobs and making you feel great about urself shoild be his priority instead of continuing to do something selfishly instead of making love to you
am i wrong for thinking like this ?