:( Hmm.

[Tasyi]

So I'm 25 weeks, my fiancé still does not have a job, pushes me around, cusses & yells at me, smokes allllll the time, PLUS had his "best friend" & his gf move in.. & he's always with them & does stupid ****, His best friends girlfriend sits there & smokes with **** too. He always tells me he'll quit doing this & quit doing that, but doesnt. I'm so tired of this.. I feel taken advantage of. Plus his best friend is really abusive to his gf too, totally insecure, doesnt let her leave, or anything. I'm just fed up.. & I'm not sure what I can do about it.. Im only 16 & my fiance is 18, we are getting married before the baby & I'm scared that once we tie the knot that he'll become worse.. How do I deal with this nonsense? Please no bashing!

[Tasyi]

I'm not defending him in anyway but he has stopped pushing & yanking me around & holding me down, but the yelling & cussing hasn't.. I'm happy when we are having good times but his friends are a bad influence. & they are currently homeless so I'm not gonna send a pregnant woman out in the streets but I do want a little more respect.

[jmb4611]

Legally Speaking That Is Not True! You Can Only Get Into Trouble If You Are 4 Years Difference! I'm  A Criminal Justice Major And That's Incorrect! The Only That Will Happen Is When You Go To Have That Baby The Hospital Will Ask If You Were Raped And Want To Press Charges! You Do NOT need Him You Can Do This.On Your Own... It Will Be Harder But Believe In Yourself And Don't.Let Your Baby Go Through that

[Tasyi]

I'm not a horrible parent for staying.. Hes a horrible parent for putting me in that position. But I did ask for words but still some wouldnt understand because of the way & where I was brought up.. In my culture I could get sent to a smoke house & what not because of the choices I am making. The only reason I am not being torturted is because I agreed to marry him.

[Tasyi]

But the state of Washington is different. My cousin had to get married & emancipated & was my age with the same age difference with her boyfriend..  

[jmb4611]

Idk, If Leaving Isn't An Option And Obviously It's Not Then You Need To Talk To Him And Tell Him If Something Doesn't Change Your Leaving! Do You Really Want Your Kid Having To Call 911 For Domestic Violence All The Time Or Going To School With Bruises And The Teacher Sees And Calls Dss Then Not Only Your Fiance But YOU will Be Held Responsible For That And Will Get Your Baby Jerked Away From You And Will Be Going To Jail! I Just Don't Understand How Not Leaving One POS man Is Worth Losing Your Baby over

[Tasyi]

Not really. I said I dont need bashing. & calling me a bad parent is bashing. So feel free to hop off my post. I dont care if anyone says anything about him but talking about ME is another.. Youre rude & WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND MY CULTURES RULES.