:( Hmm.

[Tasyi]

So I'm 25 weeks, my fiancé still does not have a job, pushes me around, cusses & yells at me, smokes allllll the time, PLUS had his "best friend" & his gf move in.. & he's always with them & does stupid ****, His best friends girlfriend sits there & smokes with **** too. He always tells me he'll quit doing this & quit doing that, but doesnt. I'm so tired of this.. I feel taken advantage of. Plus his best friend is really abusive to his gf too, totally insecure, doesnt let her leave, or anything. I'm just fed up.. & I'm not sure what I can do about it.. Im only 16 & my fiance is 18, we are getting married before the baby & I'm scared that once we tie the knot that he'll become worse.. How do I deal with this nonsense? Please no bashing!

[Tasyi]

I have talked to him, I just freaking posted that he does not get physical with me anymore!! You just need to stop commenting. You're pretty big mouthed.. But I could understand because you haven't went through anything like this & did not grow up in my culture & probably had a crown handed to you as you were growing up..

[jmb4611]

Some People Will Obviously Never Learn And Don't Want The Help They Asked For Just Because TheY Can't Handle The Truth... Good Luck In Your.Situation :)

[abbb01]

Question do u want to live the rest of ur life like that? Do u want ur baby to grow up to be like him or be in ur situation?  Get away from all of the negative and abusive ppl! U may have a hard time for awhile after leaving but ur dad ur bf and his friends all sound like they're going potentially seriously hurt or kill u or baby someday.  Just because ur pregnant and they stopped in no way means they won't start again once kid is born or even worse when ur kid is a toddler and throws a normal toddler tantrum over something. No offense but screw ur culture if it doesn't smile upon ur and ur childs health wellness and happiness! U need to make ur own way or find someone to help u!

[Tasyi]

Yeah I understand, idk its different from what everyone else grew up to. Idk, sorry I even asked. I'm not saying hes doing right by me or anything but still nobody will ever get it. @abbb01

[0318_0214]

Tasyi, I was in a horrible relationship that was veey abusive both mentally & physically throughout my entire first pregnancy & a few months afterwards. It was horrible. The best decision I ever made was gettinf out of it. For both my daughter & me. When the parents are in a horrible relationship it affects the child more than you can imagine. My advice to you, is do your best to leave. No female, & most definitely NO BABY deserves to be in that kind of environment. I pray you make the right decision even if it is hard for you & your child.

[proudFTMTeTe]

Well sweetie u asked how to deal with the non sense n in my opinion u don't deal with the non sense if its ur house u put ur foot down n demand respect point blank period! N if u can't get respect in your own house then who ever can't respect u needs to leave!! N Idk ur culture but sweetie its not going to get better just cuz u get married its going to get worse n then your child will be in a unstable home with verbal or physical abuse either one it still not good for a child to be in