:( Hmm.

[Tasyi]

So I'm 25 weeks, my fiancé still does not have a job, pushes me around, cusses & yells at me, smokes allllll the time, PLUS had his "best friend" & his gf move in.. & he's always with them & does stupid ****, His best friends girlfriend sits there & smokes with **** too. He always tells me he'll quit doing this & quit doing that, but doesnt. I'm so tired of this.. I feel taken advantage of. Plus his best friend is really abusive to his gf too, totally insecure, doesnt let her leave, or anything. I'm just fed up.. & I'm not sure what I can do about it.. Im only 16 & my fiance is 18, we are getting married before the baby & I'm scared that once we tie the knot that he'll become worse.. How do I deal with this nonsense? Please no bashing!

[abbb01]

Question do u want to live the rest of ur life like that? Do u want ur baby to grow up to be like him or be in ur situation?  Get away from all of the negative and abusive ppl! U may have a hard time for awhile after leaving but ur dad ur bf and his friends all sound like they're going potentially seriously hurt or kill u or baby someday.  Just because ur pregnant and they stopped in no way means they won't start again once kid is born or even worse when ur kid is a toddler and throws a normal toddler tantrum over something. No offense but screw ur culture if it doesn't smile upon ur and ur childs health wellness and happiness! U need to make ur own way or find someone to help u!

[jmb4611]

Some People Will Obviously Never Learn And Don't Want The Help They Asked For Just Because TheY Can't Handle The Truth... Good Luck In Your.Situation :)

[Tasyi]

I have talked to him, I just freaking posted that he does not get physical with me anymore!! You just need to stop commenting. You're pretty big mouthed.. But I could understand because you haven't went through anything like this & did not grow up in my culture & probably had a crown handed to you as you were growing up..

[Tasyi]

Not really. I said I dont need bashing. & calling me a bad parent is bashing. So feel free to hop off my post. I dont care if anyone says anything about him but talking about ME is another.. Youre rude & WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND MY CULTURES RULES.

[jmb4611]

Idk, If Leaving Isn't An Option And Obviously It's Not Then You Need To Talk To Him And Tell Him If Something Doesn't Change Your Leaving! Do You Really Want Your Kid Having To Call 911 For Domestic Violence All The Time Or Going To School With Bruises And The Teacher Sees And Calls Dss Then Not Only Your Fiance But YOU will Be Held Responsible For That And Will Get Your Baby Jerked Away From You And Will Be Going To Jail! I Just Don't Understand How Not Leaving One POS man Is Worth Losing Your Baby over

[Tasyi]

But the state of Washington is different. My cousin had to get married & emancipated & was my age with the same age difference with her boyfriend..