:( Hmm.

[Tasyi]

So I'm 25 weeks, my fiancé still does not have a job, pushes me around, cusses & yells at me, smokes allllll the time, PLUS had his "best friend" & his gf move in.. & he's always with them & does stupid ****, His best friends girlfriend sits there & smokes with **** too. He always tells me he'll quit doing this & quit doing that, but doesnt. I'm so tired of this.. I feel taken advantage of. Plus his best friend is really abusive to his gf too, totally insecure, doesnt let her leave, or anything. I'm just fed up.. & I'm not sure what I can do about it.. Im only 16 & my fiance is 18, we are getting married before the baby & I'm scared that once we tie the knot that he'll become worse.. How do I deal with this nonsense? Please no bashing!

[Tasyi]

I'm not a horrible parent for staying.. Hes a horrible parent for putting me in that position. But I did ask for words but still some wouldnt understand because of the way & where I was brought up.. In my culture I could get sent to a smoke house & what not because of the choices I am making. The only reason I am not being torturted is because I agreed to marry him.

[jmb4611]

Legally Speaking That Is Not True! You Can Only Get Into Trouble If You Are 4 Years Difference! I'm  A Criminal Justice Major And That's Incorrect! The Only That Will Happen Is When You Go To Have That Baby The Hospital Will Ask If You Were Raped And Want To Press Charges! You Do NOT need Him You Can Do This.On Your Own... It Will Be Harder But Believe In Yourself And Don't.Let Your Baby Go Through that

[Tasyi]

I'm not defending him in anyway but he has stopped pushing & yanking me around & holding me down, but the yelling & cussing hasn't.. I'm happy when we are having good times but his friends are a bad influence. & they are currently homeless so I'm not gonna send a pregnant woman out in the streets but I do want a little more respect.

[courtney111310]

If he treats you like that its only going to get worse later on...you need to stand up for yourself and your baby and do whats best for you both! Itll hurt but in the end you'll know what you have to do. I wouldnt marry him or be with him if he ever laid a hand on me or cursed at me...my boyfriend knows better than that (ive got him whipped into shape XD). If you have to get out of that situation for a while until he learns that you wont always be there for him to push around

[jmb4611]

You Need To Get OuT Now!!!! He Will Not Change But Only Get Worse If He Wanted To Change He Would Have ThE First Time You AskEd Him.... And I'm Sorry But If You actually Go Through With This Marriage The Way He Is Now You Are A Horrible Parent For Putting Your Baby Through That! If He Changes It Won't Be For long

[Tasyi]

No I dont. This is my house, & all of my family is twice as abusive. My dad is the reason I lost my first baby.. & my mom lives like 4 hours away & currently is living with her husbands parents.. My family is much worse. Not to sound stupid but the reason we are getting married is because of my cultures rules & also because he will go to jail if we do because I'm not legally allowed to have a baby by an adult .