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Boyfriend Problems
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and i have found out he has cheated on me more than once but i love him and dont want to lose him is there any advice anybody can give me he is the only thing that makes me happy and he was my first for everythign
You're right to just start ignoring all his provocative stuff. If he did try to commit suicide, they would not give him anything to write with, so he is clearly not on suicide watch. If he is even in a hospital, he didn't try to commit suicide or he *would* be on suicide watch. He's an elaborate liar and trying to suck you in again. My guess is that he is not in a hospital, and second guess is that if he is, he checked himself in for depression or something benign, and then wrote to you he tried to commit suicide so you would fall into his pocket again.
Just tell yourself, no matter what stunt he pulls next, that is is just him pulling another attention-seeking stunt, and don't look his way. Walk forward, don't look back.
Good luck, dear.
Just tell yourself, no matter what stunt he pulls next, that is is just him pulling another attention-seeking stunt, and don't look his way. Walk forward, don't look back.
Good luck, dear.
Boobear.........get your attention off him.
It doesn't matter where he is.............DON'T respond. Sounds like he feeding you some more nonsense.
It doesn't matter where he is.............DON'T respond. Sounds like he feeding you some more nonsense.
What kind of facility is he in? If he is on suicide watch they aren't going to be giving him anything sharp, i.e. pen/pencil, to be writing letters. Usually, these people are monitored closely. Something doesn't make sense here. I am not so certain he is in any facility.
Well......I just wouldn't reply to him because it will turn into correspondence back and forth with him keeping contact with you. Just another way to lure you back.
It's your decision though.
Well......I just wouldn't reply to him because it will turn into correspondence back and forth with him keeping contact with you. Just another way to lure you back.
It's your decision though.
well he wrote me a letter from there and gave me the address for me to reply to his letter i havent yet but im going to so i can tell him i am moving on i cant keep on dealing with you i need to get u off my mind i love you and all but you hurt me more than once and i cant deal with it anymore you are getting the help you need and im happy for you
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He should be upset with what he did because it was rotten. He said he was thinking about you? You mean during all the times he cheated on you?
Being that you are only 17 having a bf should be the least of your worries.
I think you need to work on your self-esteem and self-worth because it sounds like you have little to none and you should do this without a guy in your life.
For some reason you are linking your self-worth to a guy. This is extremely concerning.
Many people have had a "first" bf and a "first" true love. Though it may feeling like the world is ending when the relationship doesn't work out the reality is that the world ISN'T ending and you will get through the breakup.
We teach people how to treat us. You are allowing him to continue to mistreat you if you stay.
Your choice........
All the best.