I am 42 and married involved in a relationship with a 28 year lady living with her parents about 450kms away from where I am. I have come to realize how strong and truelly I love this woman and about a few months ago agreed to have a baby together. We have about two weeks ago established that she is pregnant, now the trouble is she would not want us to meet as I would like us to. Initially we were meeting about two weekends a month she now expect us to meet less frequently which thing I am totally unhappy with. I want to be there for her and the baby besides I have made up my mind that I want to be with her and get out of the existing marriage. I have on numerous occassion discussed my plans and intentions with her. I am doing this for the three of us, i.e My love for her, herself and the baby. . Am I expecting too much here or being unreasonable.