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I am 42 and married involved in a relationship with a 28 year lady living with her parents about 450kms away from where I am.  I have come to realize how strong and truelly I love this woman and about a few months ago agreed to have a baby together.  We have about two weeks ago established that she is pregnant, now the trouble is she would not want us to  meet as I would like us to.  Initially we were meeting about two weekends a month she now expect us to meet less frequently which thing I am totally unhappy with.  I want to be there for her and the baby besides I have made up my mind that I want to be with her and get out of the existing marriage.   I have on numerous occassion discussed my plans and intentions with her.  I am doing this for the three of us, i.e My love for her, herself and the baby. . Am I expecting too much here or being unreasonable.  
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Did you say you are married? I assume not to this 28 year old woman? Why are you still married if you are in love with another woman?
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Is this a double post under a different screen name of MeJnr?

I just responded to a post that is extremely similar to this one...
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