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[Thabiso]

I am 42 and married involved in a relationship with a 28 year lady living with her parents about 450kms away from where I am.  I have come to realize how strong and truelly I love this woman and about a few months ago agreed to have a baby together.  We have about two weeks ago established that she is pregnant, now the trouble is she would not want us to  meet as I would like us to.  Initially we were meeting about two weekends a month she now expect us to meet less frequently which thing I am totally unhappy with.  I want to be there for her and the baby besides I have made up my mind that I want to be with her and get out of the existing marriage.   I have on numerous occassion discussed my plans and intentions with her.  I am doing this for the three of us, i.e My love for her, herself and the baby. . Am I expecting too much here or being unreasonable.  

[jo929]

I forgot to mention it wont be long until you will know how it feels she is young you are not her age she will soon be looking for a younger man also she is nothing also as she is cheating she is going behind your wifes back.your wife needs to leave you will leave you with the thought soon you shall pay the piper  jo

[Julie359]

Bet he is regreting posting this on here, no smypathy from us ladies hey....lol

[Myown]

Yup backfired and a mess too. Yeah, who knows if the wife knows. I can remember when a client of mine ( I'm an ex hairdresser) found out about her husband.
He was a top surgeon in the area and all I kept thinking of was, OMG, I would hate to have to go under the knife and have him as my surgeon,,,,,no way could his head have been on straight with all the fighting they were doing.

The messiest divorce out of everyone that ever sat in my chair. Cops being called to their home. She really went at him full force. It really got crazy.

Her driver used to wait for her in the salon as I would do her hair because she was so out of it that she had to go on valium or something, so she couldn't drive during this period. It had a happy ending though. She made out just fine.  She met a very nice man.

[lovemykids465]

But now now matter what he will have to support that baby, that is if he is a real man! Sounds like he was playing a game and got played! Where is the wife in all of this, are there any children with her? What a mess.

[Julie359]

Yeah looks as if it all backfired in his face to me..... well when u play with fire someone is gona get burnt.  Shame in this case it's gona be the baby....

[Myown]

It seems this is something that is going on all over the place - women who are not married and feel they want a baby before a certain age, they grab any guy that comes along just to get pregnant. How sad for the baby. The clue to what I am saying is he said he "agreed" to have a baby. So she set him up from what I see. And now of course she is backing away and will eventually cut ties. Crazy stuff.