Well I did it again. I read the whole thing again and see where this was sent to a Kellie Smith. They will know I'm silly now. If they see this I hope they know I thought this was for me. Annie
Oh my gosh, did you read the note that I got?? I sent an answer but I don't know where I sent it. LOL I am so upside down on this computer that it's sad. I never ment any hurt or upset to anyone. I was venting my anger at and about my husband. This lady talked about high end hookers and I was talking about sad little street girls. My husband used them even if he paid them. Thats what I find so sick that one human can use another like that with no worry about it. All's good in their world for a minute. But when he stands before God well I just wonder. Do you think she is a hooker? I thought maby she might be and felt I was disrespecting her but that is not the case at all. I feel so sorry and sad for any woman or girl that finds herself out there like that. God help them ALL. Tell me what you think. Annie
first of all, not to be rude, but your completly wrong. Yeah money is the main objective of a hooker, but money is also the main objective of anybodies career! To provide for their families, and live. Safety is always the #1 concern, so your wrong ! ANYTHING IS NOT up for grabs. Hookers have set boundaries and rules that they follow, just as anyone in a field of work might have. Would you say "anything is up for grabs" while your clocked in at your job?? Or would you only do things that aren't harmful and try your best to be safe while your on the clock?? Same thing with hookers. Watch the news now a days. High end hookers are getting paid $4,000--$5,000 for a night with a older man. Who most likely is so old, that they can't even get it up. So wow a hooker made more than you probably make in a whole month in her one night.
Happy Birthday! You are 70 years young.
Will your husband go to see the therapists? I really hope he agrees to do this, for you and for himself.
I met my husband right before I turned 14. We just celebrated our 36 anniversary on the 27th. I was 15 and he was 18 when we got married. You and I both may have been extremely young when we got married but it sounds like we both took those vows very seriously.
Look on your home page around the top left. It will say you have a friend invite. Click on that and it will be from me. It will say to accept or ignore.
All you can do right now is take things day by day. You have a great attitude and already know this. It's going to take time. Some things in life are just not easy. I do hope you and your husband can work things out. He has a problem, a major one, that he probably does'nt even understand. The therapists will help him to understand why he's done what he's done.
I really do hope you have the most wonderful birthday. Talk to you soon. Remar
I hit the wrong place and it sent my reply before I was ready. I wanted to ask you what is a friend invite?? I am no good on this computer. I mess it up all the time.LOL Anyways I'll be talking to you later. I have a big day tomorrow. It's supposed to be a surprise but you know we moms have our secret ways to find things out. LOL It's my birthday, I'll be 70 and I feel it right now. Always glad to hear from you. Annie
It must be so great to have your MOM here. I love it. I went to therapist today and talked about my husband, of course, and the problems he's having. The therapists, there are 2, said they would support me in whatever decisions I might make. I ask them to see my husband and that's the plan. One is a profiler. She once worked with the FBI but retired and came to KU part time. They are both past 67 so they have old day standards for sure. They are awesome. They both deeply believe in God and that matters much to me. I will tell you I am Mennonite, but not such a good one. I met my husband at church. Thought we were sooo compatible but what do you really know when your 14??? Nothing!! After all this I still feel like I know nothing. I'm just taking every day, day by day.