Last night, all I remember is my husband waking me up from a horrible nightmare trying to get some. I was so freaked out and had no idea what was going on- I remember getting upset, not at him but because of the dream and having that “I don’t know where I am or what’s going on” feeling. He got all upset, and I cried myself to sleep. I only have flash memories of it this morning, but he was being very nasty and cold. He just came in the room and FLIPPED, saying I neglect him because I’m taking care of myself. I have no idea what he’s talking about! He said I was masturbating in my sleep and woke him up, but I don’t remember any of this! I said he was wrong and my nightmare probably woke him up but he swears that wasn’t it, and that it’s happened plenty of times in the past. He now won’t talk to me, thinking I’m doing this on purpose! He’s tried waking me up before, always saying I woke him up but it’s always when I’m having a nightmare. I don’t remember any sexual dreams, or even a positive dream, in fact it was a horrible, horrible dream. And I certainly don’t remember masturbating! He’s now convinced I’m purposely neglecting him and taking care of myself, and I don’t know what to do! It scares me because I don’t remember any of this. He won’t listen to me and doesn’t believe me, and I don’t know what to do. I don’t drink, but I do take melatonin at night before bed- 6g-9g. Is this even possible? How can I stop? I am so freaked out by this and don’t know what to do.