Since you state that you can get an erection while masterbating the problem is not mechanical but psychological.
It could be that you need more figerous stimulation or it could be the wory of not performing. A urologist would be able to help and determine the cause of your problems.
If there would be a chance that the problem is mechanical than there is treatment for that as well.
God Bless
Ron
Hi,
Thanks for writing in. There are both physical and emotional causes implicated in erectile dysfunction. But it is important to confirm whether it is erectile dysfunction or not and that can be done by a specialist with examination, history and investigations. Common casuative factors include anxiety, stress, depression, excess fatigue or dissatisfaction with the relationship with the partner.
Physical causes can include any disorder that prevents the nervous system or vascular system from responding appropriately to arousal. They are diabetes, multiple sclerosis or surgery. Vascular problems can be caused by medications, diabetes, high blood pressure, and atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries). Hormonal problems, kidney disease, liver disease, excessive alcohol ingestion, and infections can also cause ED.
Consult a specialist for further assistance.
Best