And one of the most annoying things, people not believing you, including f******* doctors
1. So you had a prostate massage and 12 hours later your sex life was ruined?
YES
2. So you can still get an erection( albeit only 70%) yet you claim to not feel normal arousal anymore?
YES
3. So you can reach ejaculation but when you do you dont feel the orgasm, its just a release of fluid
YES
4. Oh it must be pyschological, and STD, sexual exhaustion.
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It happened 12 hours after a prostate massage,
I got mildly sick, back ache, and incontinent for several days, didnt have normal erections and felt swollen and 'stuffy' downstairs.
It recovered slightly then I woke up a week later with worse symptoms and difficulty walking to extreme back and hip pain. After a trip to the hospital, the pain subsided, but no regaining lost sexual function.
This almost needs to be stickied. A prostate massage is like looking at the sun, watching a welding arc as far as I am concerned. Dont do it
Hi Im the OP, its been 13 years since it happened now. My sex life pretty much become non existant for me. I was 33 then, I am 46 or so now. I could still maintain a decent erection( though still reduced sensation, it never really recovered for me) until my early 40's.
Now I have lost almost all sensation and erectile function.
I did not try any treatment for it after the first year of treatment failed. I did visit two urologists two years after it happened, maybe 2010 or so but the first ones reply was they could take samples from the prostate( cytoscopy) but gave me the caveat"There is nothing surgery cant make worse"in other words he was willing to have a poke around if I was desperate enough, just so long as I realised it probably wouldnt make a lick of difference and could in fact make things worse.
The second urologist pretty much didnt want to deal with me, pushed me out of his ofrfice and referred me to a mens sexual health consellor..Reading between the lines on that from both urologists- "Your screwed buddy".
I have over the years taken heavy doses of antibiotics for other ailments, but none make any difference to my prostate, the damage was done early on I'd say.
This needs to be made sexual or medical news to people out there. DONT MESS WITH THE PROSTATE. IF YOU STIR UP A LATENT INFECTION YOU COULD LOSE EVERYTHING YOU HOLD DEAR!!!!
There are no two ways about it. This was not an STD, it was not some 0ther complaint, nor was it pscyological. The prostate massage ruined my normal sex life forever. I lost 30% penile function and about 65% sensation just 12 hours after it happened. It never came back. And now I am about 10% each.
I have all these symptoms, oh my gosh it sucks but a relief to maybe find out it has something to do with the prostate, I was convinced it was low t but been tested several times and my t is fine. Sometimes if i get stimulated it feels like a swelling or pressure in my prostate. I can have sex but I’m not charged or turned on. No issues with errections just never really in the mood. I also noticed a weak sluggish pelvic floor, can’t squeeze out the end of my urination like I used to so I have to wait for it all to come out rather than force the end of it all out. Anyone else have anything like this???
I have all these symptoms, oh my gosh it sucks but a relief to maybe find out it has something to do with the prostate, I was convinced it was low t but been tested several times and my t is fine. Sometimes if i get stimulated it feels like a swelling or pressure in my prostate. I can have sex but I’m not charged or turned on. No issues with errections just never really in the mood. I also noticed a weak sluggish pelvic floor, can’t squeeze out the end of my urination like I used to so I have to wait for it all to come out rather than force the end of it all out. Anyone else have anything like this???
Hi all
I had exactly the same experience. Prostate massage from an amateur .also nothing remarkable that day just experienced this weird prostate ejaculation that didn't feel like much.
BUT since then, 4 months ago, my erections are almost non existent have to manually stimulate myself to get to an almost hard state...I lost desire in sex almost completely and my orgasms are empty..just a fluid release. I had my prostate examined and it was fine. I don't know what to do? Is it all inmy head? Did she damage a nerve? Is there a cure for this? Please anybody help!
Ive always heard you’re supposed to be careful with prostate massage, not to pet the central nerve, to pet the lobes on either side — though it seems many prostate toys dont observe this.
Maybe you have nerve damage?
Sjenkins75.......i was having pain in my left testicle, which eventually I found out was pain radiating from a back injury. The pain was the only problem until I went to get checked out by a urologist who misdiagnosed me with prostatitis. I was givin medcations obviously with no improvement and after the medications he decided he wanted to give me a prostate massage after the prostate massage I get the all of the EXACT same symptoms as you... Plus a slight pinching sting in the tip of my penis that comes and goes. If u are to read this have u solved the problem?
Hi,
There’s a definite possibility of an infection restricted to the prostate gland (acute prostatitis) getting spread to the nearby epididymis or sometimes to the blood with the prostate massage. I’ll suggest you to take a complete antibiotic treatment and in future avoid prostatic massage. I know treating a prostatic infection is a nightmare both for the patient as well as the treating physician but patience does pay in majority of the cases. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care.