Women do have "ejaculation" it has been recently researched and there is link here that you can read about it. The reason you will see different information about this is that new research is still being done and there is still old information on the net that can be misleading. Some women may not even have skene''s glands hence why some people are adamant about the ejaculated being untrue but it is in fact scientifically provendors. Read this link.....
http://www.actforlibraries.org/the-skenes-gland/
No, it's just discharge and possibly urine mixed with it. Women do not really squirt but people like to think that. :>) I wouldn't overthink it. We produce a fair amount of discharge and it is often changing in consistency. But we don't have glands that produce anything like sperm. good luck (glad you used a condom)