I'm with the others - get away.... regardless if she was/is/ or even still trying to get, pregnant - she's not behaving in a way that promotes trust. If you cant talk to her or believe what she is telling you - then you shouldnt be with her. It seems to me that her story is more holey than the pope - and I can tell you from a medical point of view, that a termination would nearly always be separate to any other procedure required. (Ethical practice requires it).
Unfortunately in this world, some men and some women cannot be trusted. Steer clear of them, and definitely dont have babies with them! lol
Furthermore, if she's so insecure that she does this kind of thing in response to you talking to another woman, then she is not in the right head space to be with anyone - she needs to sort her own issues out.
Get away while you can. An abortion procedure has absolutely nothing to do with cancerous cysts. She would have had to have a biopsy done on the cyst to tell if it was cancerous and then would have had to have a laparotomy to have it removed. Which would probably be followed up by radiation therapy to ensure all the cancerous cells are dead. There are WAY too many holes in her story. Run, before she really does pin you into the relationship with a real baby.
Trevor, actually, this is a perfect site to discuss this.
I think you should run fast and far from her and never look back.
i agree with quinns momma...they wouldn't remove a cyst at the same time as an abortion. it's not one of those things that they say "ya know while were in there....". it could be she convieniently had the"abortion" at 2/3 months because she knew she couldn't keep up the "pregnancy". orrrrrrr she really did. but if she avoided going to the doctors with you....i'd be suspicious to. and for the pregnancy to come about the same time you guys were having issues....sounds a bit fishy. i'd say take a break from her before she really does end up pregnant.
oh and btw missing ONE pill won't cause you to get pregnant that day if she was taking them regularly like she was supposed to. even on the package it says to just double up the next day or to take the pill as soon as your realize you missed it.
It seems that she got freaked about the idea of you talking to this other girl and figured a fake pregnancy would keep u around. It does not seem to me that she was ever pregnant. Nor would a cyst be removed during a procedure for an abortion. That is not the type of procedure that is needed for an actual cyst removal. She would also have to fillow up with an oncologist if she did have a cancerous cyst. So she also lied about that.
She is manipulating you. Break it off with her before she starts spinning even more lies. You seem like a caring smart young man and there is a wonderful girlfriend out there for you. Word of advice use a condom!!
Take care of yourself!!
boy that was a lot! its very long and i didnt read it all i stoped after the long """"""" 's. anyways i dont think theres anyway to really tell if shes pregnant because you cant like look into her medical history.
if you dont beleive her (clearly you dont) then leave her or just dont have sex with her so she cant say all of these things again.
she should know that having a baby will not make you stay its likely to make you go the opposite way!