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LARGE MONS PUBIS
HELP. i've a large pubic bone and fat mons pubis. if i wear bicycle pants or something a bit tight it doesnt look like a regular mound.it looks like i have b*lls. i think its because my pubic bone is high. and my mons is really plump and fat, not like a usual mound. others often make fun of me, they say i’m actually a man, that i’m not normal, that i’m disgusting, etc. and when i walk in a bikini or swimsuit in the beach or the swimming pool, i can feel people staring DOWN,once, there was even a group of girls and some boys actually giggling about it. its really uncomfortable. it looks really round, fat and it protrudes outwards. and i’m not overweight AT ALL, but that section is damn fat.i’m 18 and im not sexually active, im embarassed. what do you think should be done? surgery’s my last option..
Hi,
I have finely booked my Surrey after years of torturing myself, I wanted to know does it look droopy after I'm scarred I,ll be flatter but have big lips
Thank you
X
I have finely booked my Surrey after years of torturing myself, I wanted to know does it look droopy after I'm scarred I,ll be flatter but have big lips
Thank you
X
Hi,
I have the same problem it's getting worse and it's takin over my life, I finely booked my surgery and have it n two months I can,t wait. Have you ha yours done and how do you feel. X
I have the same problem it's getting worse and it's takin over my life, I finely booked my surgery and have it n two months I can,t wait. Have you ha yours done and how do you feel. X
So glad that I'm not the only one has this, you know what i mean.. .
when i googled it, surgery is commonly the best solution. But, i can't afford it and it's risky to our health. So, as i read all the discussion, i'm relieved because i'm not the only one who has this and i also experience some of those problems like wearing bikinis and whatever. Every time i see girls i always observe their, you know, but they're flat and it makes me feel uncomfortable about myself. So, i'll just get over it and accept it.
i really do hope that what justme2012 shared about bike, helps reduces the bulging. And let's not be ashamed of what we have, it's a gift and we're special :)))))).
Everyone else has abnormality, maybe not this kind but with their other parts of the body.
when i googled it, surgery is commonly the best solution. But, i can't afford it and it's risky to our health. So, as i read all the discussion, i'm relieved because i'm not the only one who has this and i also experience some of those problems like wearing bikinis and whatever. Every time i see girls i always observe their, you know, but they're flat and it makes me feel uncomfortable about myself. So, i'll just get over it and accept it.
i really do hope that what justme2012 shared about bike, helps reduces the bulging. And let's not be ashamed of what we have, it's a gift and we're special :)))))).
Everyone else has abnormality, maybe not this kind but with their other parts of the body.
Hi, I'm glad you were brave enough to go through with the lipo, I've been thinking about this for about 5 years. I am too afraid to get close to another guy since the last time....we were just lying caressing and he seemed to sort of 'notice' my fat bulge, then he batted it and it wobbled! I saw him physically wince, and I've never been the same since.
Life is too short not to try and help ourselves out of our problems...sure, we'd all like to conform to 'normality', but when that's not possible? I'm fed-up letting life pass me by and would love to share myself again and re-gain my confidence. I'm saving up and hopefully will be able to go ahead this summer.
Continued great health and happiness Huntress!
Life is too short not to try and help ourselves out of our problems...sure, we'd all like to conform to 'normality', but when that's not possible? I'm fed-up letting life pass me by and would love to share myself again and re-gain my confidence. I'm saving up and hopefully will be able to go ahead this summer.
Continued great health and happiness Huntress!
Hi all !
Im now 3 weeks post op and the swelling is starting to go down, im happy with the results i am seeing, although they said swelling can take up to 12 weeks to go so it will hopefully look even better with time. I will try give as much info as i can but if there is anything specific you would like to know then feel free to contact me.
So my surgery was lipo of the fat pad/mons and skin excision which has left a 3 inch scar, but this can be hidden by pubic hair. The surgery wasnt painful, it was done under general anaesthetic (which does bump the price up a fair bit !) not sure if it can be done under local, but i wouldnt fancy that myself ! immediatly after surgery it felt like razor burn and was a bit sore when i was getting on and off the bed and sitting down, this continued for about a week, it felt like if you dry shave and scratch yourself with the razor, and felt very bruised, no real pain, just uncomfortable, nothing to shout about. I did not have labia majora reduction it was just lipo and uplift. I stayed in hospital for 1 night and had to rest for 2 weeks at home, after 2 weeks i was back at work with minimal pain which is helped by paracetamol. I do see quite a bit of a change in the whole area and it has given me confidence already, i cant wait for the rest of the swelling to go away and see the final result ! If i had to go through with it again then i would, because it was worth it and not really as painful as i expected.
At the moment the area is still uncomfortable, Its not sore to touch, but if i lay on it by mistake at night it hurts as there is still deep bruising, its also numb and hard, but this is all normal as lipo is very traumatic for the cells under the skin. Swelling can be a problem in this area obviously due to gravity, so you need to be really patient.
Its quite strange how it affects you mentally also, i was stood a certain way the other day and thought "oh maybe people can see it so i had better move" but then i thought "no ! its not there anymore" ! quite strange actually in a good way !
Not sure if i have covered everything you wanted to know, but please ask if there is anything else and il do my best to answer.
Im now 3 weeks post op and the swelling is starting to go down, im happy with the results i am seeing, although they said swelling can take up to 12 weeks to go so it will hopefully look even better with time. I will try give as much info as i can but if there is anything specific you would like to know then feel free to contact me.
So my surgery was lipo of the fat pad/mons and skin excision which has left a 3 inch scar, but this can be hidden by pubic hair. The surgery wasnt painful, it was done under general anaesthetic (which does bump the price up a fair bit !) not sure if it can be done under local, but i wouldnt fancy that myself ! immediatly after surgery it felt like razor burn and was a bit sore when i was getting on and off the bed and sitting down, this continued for about a week, it felt like if you dry shave and scratch yourself with the razor, and felt very bruised, no real pain, just uncomfortable, nothing to shout about. I did not have labia majora reduction it was just lipo and uplift. I stayed in hospital for 1 night and had to rest for 2 weeks at home, after 2 weeks i was back at work with minimal pain which is helped by paracetamol. I do see quite a bit of a change in the whole area and it has given me confidence already, i cant wait for the rest of the swelling to go away and see the final result ! If i had to go through with it again then i would, because it was worth it and not really as painful as i expected.
At the moment the area is still uncomfortable, Its not sore to touch, but if i lay on it by mistake at night it hurts as there is still deep bruising, its also numb and hard, but this is all normal as lipo is very traumatic for the cells under the skin. Swelling can be a problem in this area obviously due to gravity, so you need to be really patient.
Its quite strange how it affects you mentally also, i was stood a certain way the other day and thought "oh maybe people can see it so i had better move" but then i thought "no ! its not there anymore" ! quite strange actually in a good way !
Not sure if i have covered everything you wanted to know, but please ask if there is anything else and il do my best to answer.
i am so happy that i found this site, i am 17, i really didnt know that there were so many women with the same problem as me. reading through the comments i have found a little reassurence in the way i look. i have been trying to find a surgeon to perform surgery still no luck... YOU ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!! X
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