Aa
a weird question
hello.
i dont know if this is the right place to ask this but im desperate.
3 months ago i visited a spa massage place... i did not touch a single hair of the worker but i did masturbate on top of her, about one meter of distance, some of my ejaculation fluid landed on her stomach and im not sure if some landed on or near her vulva.
ive been striking everyday with thoughts of her being pregnant and waiting for the child to br born so she can sie me and get me on child support.
sorry about the long introduction and i know this sohnds crazy but, is it possible to get pregnant this way? no penetration took place and secondly... should i look for thr worker and see if she has a belly or should i let this go?
thank yoi for the help.
i dont know if this is the right place to ask this but im desperate.
3 months ago i visited a spa massage place... i did not touch a single hair of the worker but i did masturbate on top of her, about one meter of distance, some of my ejaculation fluid landed on her stomach and im not sure if some landed on or near her vulva.
ive been striking everyday with thoughts of her being pregnant and waiting for the child to br born so she can sie me and get me on child support.
sorry about the long introduction and i know this sohnds crazy but, is it possible to get pregnant this way? no penetration took place and secondly... should i look for thr worker and see if she has a belly or should i let this go?
thank yoi for the help.
It is your guilty conscience that is at work here. Forget all about it and never do it again.
You have a wife and you should be faithful to her.
You do NOT tell her anything. Your guilty conscience is yours, so don't palm it off on your wife and make her feel bad too.
Learn by this mistake and be true to your wife.
Enjoy sexual play with your wife.
You have a wife and you should be faithful to her.
You do NOT tell her anything. Your guilty conscience is yours, so don't palm it off on your wife and make her feel bad too.
Learn by this mistake and be true to your wife.
Enjoy sexual play with your wife.
COMMUNITY LEADER
I sincerely doubt a sex worker that you paid via a credit card will get pregnant and go through her receipts and choose 'you' as the daddy. If she's a sex worker, you aren't her only client. An over 40 sex worker none the less with conception being difficult after that age. I think you are having anxiety over this and yes, it wasn't a good thing to do---- but I do not think she is pregnant. She can't get pregnant from your masturbating on her. You have to have intercourse.
good luck
good luck
thank you Jemma
but thats what im afraid of... the dna test.... what scares me is that there was a camera at the entracr of the place and i paid with my credit card am afraid thats sufficient information to get a hold of me.... im also married... yea im a scumbag... am having dreams where they find me and tell me the kid is mine... what will i tell my wife? thats why i thought talking to this person before was better because that way i could ease my mind from this improbable but worrysome event.
but thats what im afraid of... the dna test.... what scares me is that there was a camera at the entracr of the place and i paid with my credit card am afraid thats sufficient information to get a hold of me.... im also married... yea im a scumbag... am having dreams where they find me and tell me the kid is mine... what will i tell my wife? thats why i thought talking to this person before was better because that way i could ease my mind from this improbable but worrysome event.
No, you cannot get a woman pregnant like the way you described.
My advise is for you NOT to contact this woman and keep well away.
If you feel like a sexual urge, stay at home, lock yourself in the bathroom, if there are other people in the house, and masturbate yourself.
If you feel you need a "turn" on, buy some adult magazines, but make these are kept out of sight and away from any young children.
In this day and age there are DNA tests to prove parenthood.
You have absolutely NOTHING to worry about. Visualise you putting that thought into a bag and bin it.
My advise is for you NOT to contact this woman and keep well away.
If you feel like a sexual urge, stay at home, lock yourself in the bathroom, if there are other people in the house, and masturbate yourself.
If you feel you need a "turn" on, buy some adult magazines, but make these are kept out of sight and away from any young children.
In this day and age there are DNA tests to prove parenthood.
You have absolutely NOTHING to worry about. Visualise you putting that thought into a bag and bin it.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Okay, so first of all, a woman in her 40's is not very likely to get pregnant even if you had intercourse. JUST FYI, fertility is greatly decreased once a woman hits 40 years old.
Let it go. It wasn't a great idea to do this and I'd not repeat it. But for sure, the woman could not have gotten pregnant since you did not have sex with her. good luck
Let it go. It wasn't a great idea to do this and I'd not repeat it. But for sure, the woman could not have gotten pregnant since you did not have sex with her. good luck
no... she was in her forties... i talk about cops because i am paranoid any of my stupid actions carry some consequences which i wanna takle before they takle me... i dont know what else i can do
COMMUNITY LEADER
No, you should not talk to her. She's not pregnant. You become pregnant from vaginal intercourse. If your penis was not inside of her, she can't get pregnant.
You keep talking about the police. Was she a child? Underage?
The cops don't look for the father of children. A woman petitions the court for child support, court approaches you to appear and then if you are proven the father you pay child support. They do a DNA test. And then you pay or you can go to jail if you do not pay. So, really, it doesn't work like you are thinking.
You keep talking about the police. Was she a child? Underage?
The cops don't look for the father of children. A woman petitions the court for child support, court approaches you to appear and then if you are proven the father you pay child support. They do a DNA test. And then you pay or you can go to jail if you do not pay. So, really, it doesn't work like you are thinking.
thanks, last question... do you think i should talk to her and see if she is pregnant or that would just make things worse? if there is absokutely no chamce i would let it go... i just dont want cops to look for me because i am the father, i know it sounds crazy but im afraid is possible?
COMMUNITY LEADER
Yes, you are overthinking. Being with sex workers is in general considered risky behavior. You were naked with a paid person you don't know. What if it was a set up and while you were doing what you were doing, her boyfriend came in and punched your head and they robbed you? What if she had an STD? What if you got carried away and had intercourse with her and as a sex worker, her risk of std is much higher than your average woman?
Sex workers/prostitution is easy but I think you'd be wiser to save sex for someone you know better. That is just my opinion of course. good luck
Sex workers/prostitution is easy but I think you'd be wiser to save sex for someone you know better. That is just my opinion of course. good luck
hi special mom thanks gor answering... what do u mean by risky on that scenario... what could have happened that im not considering? i dont know if im just paranoid or that could have happened... also... i was looking at laws online for child support and i mistakenly typed.... child support prostitution, could this sou d misleading getting police to think im looking for child prostitution? am i over thinking this?
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi there. If your question is if you could have gotten her pregnant from what you describe, the answer is no.
However, it IS risky behavior and I would consider either making sure you have a good supply of condoms if revisiting the sex worker or not giving into temptation and staying home.
good luck
However, it IS risky behavior and I would consider either making sure you have a good supply of condoms if revisiting the sex worker or not giving into temptation and staying home.
good luck
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