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Pregnant after being fingered? PLEASE HELP ME :(

Okay, so. I am 16 years old. Last night, I was with my boyfriend. And things got intense. We started to kiss and then he continued to finger me. But I made sure that he hadn't masturbated before doing this action. I asked him when the last time he masturbated, and he said he couldn't remember. So I believed him that it was safe because it was probably a few days ago before this happened. He had taken a shower before I picked him up and he said that even if he still has sperm on his fingers the soap and **** would have taken care of it. I got my period Sunday which was the 23rd, and it got over Thursday. I know this is silly but I am SO SO SO afraid that I might be pregnant from this. After this happened I started to feel gross. Like, my lower stomach hurt and where my ovaries are started to feel like there were cramps happening. This was my first time being fingered and it really hurt. I don't know if I just got a stomach ache from being hungry because I hadn't eaten alot before this but the feeling continued throughout the day today. I am very nervous and I don't know what to do. Please, help me.
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You are definitely not pregnant, nor could you be pregnant from your boyfriend inserting his fingers inside you. Women can only get pregnant when they are ovulating. You ovulate 14 days after the last day of your period. That's because the egg is in the right place to be fertilized. You're young. I suggest you research everything there is to know about sex and pregnancy. It will help you understand your body a lot more. You're not pregnant though, so I wouldn't worry about it anymore.
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You are not pregnant, but next time tell him to be more gentle and your just paranoid so don’t worry.
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My stomach still hurts. This happened Friday night and I am still so nervous I might be pregnant. My stomach is like gurgling and making noises and it's just a gross feeling. My stomach also hurts to press down on. Is this bad!?
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Stress and anxiety can cause your stomach to feel upset. Your stomach also makes gurgling noises naturally when you digest food. It could be gas as well. And let's say hypothetically that you did get pregnant (even though there is no way you could be), your stomach wouldn't be hurting a couple days after. Babies don't grow that fast. Lol.
Just saw you wrote this back in 2011. So, how did everything go in these last 7 years? Lol
Babies don't grow that fast but it could've been her body getting ready for the pregnancy in which can cause soreness around the vagina along with cramps in the lower abdomen because your uterus is expanding or getting ready to.
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thank you so much. and i know. but i am still so paranoid about all of this!
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You are not pregnant sweetie, there is no way you can get pregnant from getting fingered.  Maybe he did it too hard.  If this is your first time then its of course going to feel weird and different and your estrogen is going crazy because of the horomones that are released when you are sexually active.  Plus, you're being paranoid. :)  Don't worry, you are definitely NOT pregnant!
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thank you soooo muchh. this makes me feel so much better. i know. i am very paranoid about it. but its just the fact that my stomach has been bothering me ever since. like the lower part where the lady parts are. ahaha.
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