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Okay so i'm only 15 and me and my boyfriend have been having sex for alittle over a month now.  However about 2 weeks ago, before i got my period, it started to hurt when i peed.  I felt a really weird sensation right when my pee was about to finish and realized alittle bit of blood was coming out, but i didnt have my period.  Me and my boyfriend researched this and found out it probably was just irritation in my vagina walls.  The bleeding stopped after a couple of days.  It just feels uncomfortable right when my pee ends.  But now i have the uncomfortable sensation that i have to pee more often however sometimes when i pee not a lot of pee comes out.  I don't understand why i still feel uncomfortable when i pee towards the end and at times not a lot of pee comes out.  I haven't told my parents this problem because if my mom took me to the gynacologist and the doctor told her i had sex, my mom would kick my ***.  I would like to figure out whats wrong and possibly treat it without having to tell anybody.  But obviously if its really bad i'll have to tell someone.  Please comment back. I'm so confused. Thanks :]
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hey yeah it sounds like you have a bladder infection that's what happen too me I'm only 13 and I had sex with my boyfriend alreaddy but we have been together for a while....and the bladder infection isent from havving sex trust me honey I've had that befor... You get that from how you wip your self after you use the restroom... Butt yeah you should get that checked for your health..
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So when I pee it hurts towards the end.I am sexually active but my parents don't know I told my mom that It hurts when I pee and that it is probably a uti she said she would make a appointment but will the doctor.what I'm worried about is will the doctor say are you sexually active infront of my mom because that's the last thing that I want to happen.also I'm due for my period but will the uti affect that process?
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just go to a regular walk in clinic and say you think you have a urinary tract infection. then tell them your symptoms, they will do a pee test (thats it, no pelvic exam) and confirm it. Godd luck I hope i'm right.
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You have a urinary tract infection and if you don't go to a doctor and get the antibiotics for it it can travel into your liver or kidneys. Urinary tract infections are not a huge deal and you don't have to tell your mom you are having sexual intercourse if your not ready to. Cranberry juice helps but it wont kill the infection. You need to urinate after you have sex (everytime) and make sure your drinking enough water.
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okay so i started drinking cranberry juice and it doesnt hurt when i pee, but sometimes it does.  i have a feeling that, thats not what a bladder infection is. idk...so confusedd
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It's easy to say, but don't let embarrassment get in the way of going to a doctor...they deal with these kind of things all the time and will know exactly how to deal with it...they're professionals who won't judge you whatever the problem is and will be confidential.  It's not easy but I guarantee you'll feel better when you do something about it.
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yes hun u really do still need to go to the doc cuz u need antibiotics 2 get rid of the infection and 2 also confirm thats the problem too.
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i agree if you are sexually active you need to get on birth control. but i had the same problem you had for a few months. i had went to planned parenthood and they told me i had chlameydia. it a very common std with women under 25. and it is treatable. im not a doctor so dont take my word for it but if its not a uti then you should go to a doctor.
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you need to see a doctor. you need antibiotics. tell your mom, make an appointment and go see a doctor. also GET ON BIRTHCONTROL and buy condoms.
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i heard cranberry juice helps the infection go away...is this true? if i just drink cranberry juice will i still have to go see the doctor?
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I agree it sounds like a UTI, you'll need an antibiotic. drink plenty of water and try to avoid anything acidic--no juice, coffee, tea, pop, caffeine, or carbonation. Also if you can't tell ur mom your're having sex what are  u going to do if you'd get pregnant? I assume that if u haven't been to the gyne then your not on any birth control.
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hey! im not a doctor so don't take my word for it, but this sounds like a bladder infection to me! i am sexually active and have gotten them before and have had the exact same symptoms im 99.9^% sure its a bladder infection. to get rid of it you will need to go to the doctor and get anti biotics for it but you can just go to a clinic for that. if you can go without your mom that would be good but bladder infections aren't just caused by sex. they are also caused from holding you pee so you could just tell your mom thats probably why you got it! lol if you have any more questions feel free to message me!
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if you can't tell your mom you're having sex then you shouldn't be doing it. you could have a uti, infection or std. you need to get to a doctor. woman up and tell your mom.
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